Life is an unhealthy addiction.

In life, there’s suffering, and that’s not good. Some will say this isn’t always bad, because sometimes in life you’re forced to endure one suffering to avoid an even greater one, i.e painful injection to avoid a worse disease.

But in and of itself, suffering is bad. If you could magically give yourself immunity to cancer by snapping your fingers, you’d do that. If I only rammed a cactus in your ass for no benefit in return, you’d decline the offer.

An absolute fact is that prior to the existence of conscious lifeforms, there was obviously absolutely zero suffering going on in the universe that needed us to exist in order to prevent it, so the suffering that was caused by the first conscious lifeform ever existing was unnecessary suffering, not instrumental to avoiding even greater suffering, the existence of the first organism that suffered cannot be compared to the perhaps painful, but useful vaccination, it served no pre-existing need.

  • So we can see that a good way to end all pain, suffering, negative sensation is to put a stop to all conscious life in the universe.

What do we lose? All pleasures, joys, happy moments. Some people think this is a big deal, but it’s not, because the fact of the matter is that non-existers don’t need to achieve happy moments of relief in order to avoid miserable moments of suffering. Only utterly disadvantaged existers need to achieve happy moments of relief in order to avoid miserable moments of suffering.

I need to eat, or I suffer hunger. I need to drink water, or I suffer thirst. I need to shit, or I suffer constipation. I need cum, or I suffer tension. Non-existers do not eat delicious food, they do not drink refreshing water, they don’t get a feeling of relief from pressing a big turd out of their asses, they don’t ever get an orgasm – but – they do not suffer hunger, thirst, constipation or tension as a result of that – so it’s no problem.

Here you can think of many metaphors, let’s use heroin. If you are addicted to heroin, then the heroin gains value, now it can serve a need. But if you’re not addicted to heroin, then it loses all its value.

If I stick a knife in your chest, then the bandaid gains value, now it can serve a need. But if I don’t put a hole in your chest, then the bandaid loses all its value.

If I don’t make you addicted to heroin, you avoid all future problems associated with heroin addiction, and losing out on the pleasure of satisfying an addiction you don’t even have isn’t going to be a problem either, because you currently don’t have that addiction.

If I don’t stab you in the chest, you avoid all future problems associated with having been stabbed in the chest, and losing out on the pleasure of receiving a bandaid won’t be a problem either, because you don’t even have a wound.

  • I don’t think pleasure, relief of suffering is as important as simply avoiding suffering altogether, there is an endless number of potential people that could experience pleasure that are not being born, I don’t see this as a tragedy because they never suffer from not having pleasure.

By stopping the production of all sentient life, all negatives are avoided, and the positives too, but I think that’s irrelevant because no non-exister misses them, again, no negatives. No problem, no fun either…but it won’t be a problem either.

I’d say it’s a win win situation, the sadness of the starving third world person is solved, and the non-existent first world person that can’t eat any more chocolate cake isn’t sad about not eating more chocolate cake either in some kind of unborn purgatory – win win situation that everyone should be content with.

So it brings up the question:

  • If stopping the production of consciousness solves all problems that could ever exist, why are people so opposed to the idea of all conscious life extinction?

It’s simple and in what I just described – because it is an addiction, they have an addict’s mindset.

As disadvantaged existers, we are in a position where we have to chase the happy relief moment in order to avoid suffering, fulfill your need or be tormented by it. So unless you’re constantly intellectually contemplating and analyzing it, perhaps you’re going to end up subconsciously thinking no pleasure=suffering.

Many people seem to be irrationally scared of death as if death is actually some kind of second life where you are simply deprived of all pleasure, which would mean suffering again of course, so it seems to me as if they’re in reality scared of suffering and just falsely think that non-existence somehow involves suffering.

”No more x (whatever it may be) that makes my life great, how horrible!”…but you also have to take into account that your need/want/desire for x will not exist anymore, so is it really that big of a deal? I don’t think so.

If someone is not contemplating their existence too deeply, it could be that they’re just not really taking that into account and their immediate gut reaction is ”oh no, no more pleasure, not having pleasure results in suffering! I don’t eat so I get hungry! So I have to make a child so that then that child can eat in order to avoid being hungry!”.

It’s just like a heroin addict might in their addiction not grasp the idea of ”taking away the addiction”, all he hears is ”we want to take away your heroin” and even that is still not a fitting comparison, because with someone who already exists, we could at least argue that they might already have problems in their life that have been temporarily alleviated by becoming addicted to heroin, we could at least argue that treating the heroin addiction might very well be difficult and they’re going to feel like shit afterwards – make a fair cost-benefit analysis.

But not creating a new addiction to pleasure, relief of suffering by simply not creating a new conscious lifeform has absolutely no downside for that would-be person that will now never come to exist, at least with the already existent person we could argue that becoming addicted to heroin might give them some relief from a bad day they were already having, the non-exister on the other hand never had a bad day on which they really needed you to make them existent.

So an honest cost-benefit analysis is always going to reveal that it’s a stupid idea to make them existent, being upset about humans or other animals on this planet not being born to experience relief of suffering they didn’t need before they existed is just as idiotic as being upset about non-existent martians or plutonians not experiencing pleasure on mars and pluto, or being upset that objects around me like chairs, tables, rocks aren’t sentient so that then they could experience the heavenly pleasures offered by consciousness.

Of course, I could see how from that perspective you could justify almost all suffering that happens to you, if you think that if they didn’t get whatever little pleasure moment they got in their lives, they would have suffered even worse from not obtaining that pleasure moment, if that is an intuition one has (i.e ”I somehow existed before I existed and then I would have been hurt by not receiving my great life”).

So if someone who is dying of cancer thinks that if they got aborted and didn’t get their first orgasm, they would have really missed out on that first orgasm from the depths of the unborn purgatory, they might conclude that dying of cancer is now totally worth it for that first orgasm.

But if they actually understood the full context, that absence of pleasure does not inherently equal presence of suffering, that absence of pleasure only means presence of suffering as long as you exist, but not when you do not exist, then why would you think that a little pin prick of suffering would be worth tolerating, since prior to existing, the non-exister had absolutely zero need, want, desire to be served whatsoever by coming into existence? Why tolerate any risk?

  • Similarly, humans project value onto objects that don’t have any real value, e.g. you think the goal is getting money, you think the goal is buying resources with money, but the real underlying goal is always avoiding pain and suffering, that’s the only reason why you chase the money to get resources, to ultimately alleviate some form of suffering in you.

We all have slightly different needs, wants, desires, but the function is the same – we experience suffering if we don’t do a given activity, that is what defines a need, want, desire, do x or suffer. So existers notice that some objects bring them alleviation – you suffer and you ate a chocolate cake, now the suffering went away.

Because it creates more exhaustion to constantly analyze what is going to most efficiently prevent suffering, they then make a rather sloppy evaluation, as in: chocolate cake=good, no chocolate cake=bad. It’s a projection, they don’t recognize their underlying motivations, the real good is just the elevation of their state from a worse to a better one.

But in their addiction they end up thinking that whatever object that helped them prevent suffering is now the real good, and fail to understand that if no sentient life existed, then there would be no one to miss the chocolate cake and suffer from not having it anymore, it’s simple.

Another explanation could be the stockholm syndrome angle, life as the tormentor.

Stockholm syndrome has been defined as a condition in which hostages develop a psychological alliance with their captors during captivity.[1] Emotional bonds may be formed between captor and captives, during intimate time together, but these are generally considered irrational in light of the danger or risk endured by the victims.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stockholm_syndrome#Sexual_abuse_victims

The slave grows up getting whipped, so at some point the slave starts to defend the slave owners. If I didn’t get whipped – then I wouldn’t be able to appreciate how good it feels to not get whipped for a few minutes, get a small moment of relief.

True story, but if you wouldn’t get whipped, then you wouldn’t need to feel relief from not getting whipped anymore either, because you wouldn’t get whipped anymore.

But the slave is so deep into their rationalization of slavery that they lose their ability to see that, so not only do they support their own enslavement, they actually want everyone to be enslaved and get whipped as much as possible, so that then these people that had absolutely no use for the pleasure of not getting whipped anymore can appreciate what it’s like to not get whipped anymore, after they got whipped as much as possible.

At first the victim is usually still struggling and doesn’t appreciate it, you can see that children for instance are much more likely to scream and throw a tantrum in the middle of a supermarket when they don’t get something they want, they’re still not used to the whip of deprivation, they still feel raped by desire, as they grow older they start to delusionally appreciate getting whipped by deprivation, because sometimes the whipping isn’t as intense, and then they can appreciate getting whipped less intensely for a while, develop stockholm syndrome just like their parents.

Perhaps even taking some kind of solace in the fact that other victims of desire are getting whipped harder than you. ”At least I have something to eat to alleviate hunger, the people in Africa don’t” without ever recognizing that hunger itself is a deficit to begin with, what is good about even needing to eat food to avoid suffering?

You’re tormented by your need, want, desire, and sometimes you feel relief from them, so you mistakenly end up believing it’s necessary to create more conscious life whipped by need, want, desire, for the relief of sometimes fulfilling a need, want, desire that they didn’t have before you created them in the first place.

I think the psychology that keeps this game going is one of addiction and stockholm syndrome, humans instinctively imagine the addiction to somehow exist independently of them. Somehow, the universe must need us inside it.

Somehow, there must be an unborn purgatory, just like many of them also believe in some kind of non-sensical afterlife notion because they simply fail to imagine what it would be like if we didn’t exist anymore.

So life is seen as a necessity, when it in fact satisfies no pre-existing need whatsoever, only a need in greedy animals that can’t possibly imagine that the need could also just not exist anymore.

Eating animals because they’re less intelligent.

The argument for humans rights is the same argument for animal rights, other animals possess the characteristic that makes it important to be put into the category of organisms that have rights, which is sentience – the capacity to feel things.

It is not my white skin color that makes it important for me to avoid having a knife shoved in my throat, as I could be braindead, still contain white skin color, but it could not possibly matter to me if I had a knife shoved in my throat, so this proves that it’s not the white skin color that makes avoidance of a knife in my throat into an important priority.

It is not my penis that makes it important for me to avoid having a knife shoved in my throat, as I could be braindead, still contain a penis, but it could not possibly matter to me if I had a knife shoved in my throat, so this proves that it’s not penis that makes avoidance of knife in my throat into an important priority.

And finally, it is not my human DNA that makes it an important priority to avoid having a knife shoved in my throat either, as I could be braindead, still contain human DNA, but it could not possibly matter to me if I had a knife shoved in my throat, so this proves that it’s not human DNA that makes avoidance of knife in my throat into an important priority.

There is absolutely no reason why it would be in any way worse to pull the plug on a braindead person, any more than to pull the plug on a computer, the only reason why it could ever possibly be bad to do so is because it affects another sentient organism, like a family member or friend of their’s that has some kind of emotional attachment to the braindead body, but if that family would indeed be more upset by someone destroying their computer than the braindead human, then it would be worse to destroy the computer in fact.

Speciesists are under ingroup favoritism/bias, just like racists and sexists, i.e I am important because I can feel things, that is understood, but this other creature is not important despite being able to feel things just like me, because it doesn’t share group membership with me, you’re not in team white, team penis or team human, so we can torture you.

An other difference that exists between humans and animals, that does not as severely exist between whites and blacks, or men and women, is the different level of intelligence, it is true that pigs, cows, chicken are much less intellectually capable than humans, whereas there’s no such extreme difference between blacks and whites, or men and women.

  • However, then we run into the mental retardation problem.

There are of course severely mentally disabled humans that aren’t much more intelligent than pigs, cows, chicken, definitely not chimpanzees, so would any of these speciesists sign me a contract that states that if they were to get into a car accident tomorrow and end up on the same level of intelligence as a pig, cow or chicken, I am allowed to treat them as a pig, cow or chicken?

Let’s say you are no longer able to add 50 plus 50, and cannot read books, so now I can cut your nuts off with no anesthesia, stick my arm up your asshole and throw you into a meatgrinder once you are of no more use for me to rape and exploit? Is that perfectly fine? I couldn’t get any more milk out of that retarded bitch’s tits, so I beat her to death with a sledgehammer. Why not?

  • ”BUT THEY’RE STILL HUMANS!!!!!”

Saying that such disabled humans are still human though, even if they’re not as intelligent, so they’re still granted rights unlike the other animals is nothing but a cheap cop-out, because if the speciesist specifically states intelligence to be the reason why humans have rights unlike animals, and we already established that human DNA in and of itself is worthless (braindead vegetables contain human DNA but can’t feel shit), then obviously if there’s a human that does not possess such a level of intelligence, they don’t deserve rights, plain and simple, it’s logical consistency.

It would be analogous a sexist saying men are granted rights because they’re stronger than women, but then, when we find these sexists a man that is just as weak as the average woman, they say ”but he still has a peepee!” to justify why this man has rights, but women don’t, because the very reason they stated as to why penis havers deserve rights is because they’re stronger than women, this man is not, so he doesn’t deserve rights according to said sexist.

They basically want to attempt to say that even if this retarded person is no more intelligent than a pig that they justify eating based on said pig’s lack of intelligence, they should still be treated the same as other humans, because they share one characteristic with them, which is being human.

This is completely irrational and arbitrary, by that sort of rule (treat the minority the same as the majority based on sharing one characteristic with them), I could say most people are not rapists, Ted Bundy is a serial rapist but also a person, so therefore, we shouldn’t arrest Ted Bundy, because he shares the characteristic, which is personhood with non-rapists.

Speciesists don’t really have any coherent excuse for this, here they frequently just try to make it sound more complex than it is, by appealing to extrinsic factors that may in practice, not in principle be different about causing harm to an unintelligent creature, or use other concepts to describe intelligence and say that animals lack these capacities, like rationality, reason, the ability to reciprocate morals and social contracts, etc.

So they might say if you assault the retarded person, the family of the retarded person would be upset, if you assault the cow, no one would be upset, except the cow of course.

Great, then just rape a retarded orphan child that no one knows on an abandoned island, or in a society of psychopaths that all join in and rape the retarded orphan child too. You’d sign the contract then that says if you end up retarded, we can treat you like that? No.

The pig on the other hand was just bred for meat, the retard wasn’t! Great, then let’s just explicitly breed pig IQ humans for the purpose of turning them into mince meat then, that surely makes it a lot better, as long as you breed someone for the sole purpose of exploiting them it’s alright, slavery is only a problem if you weren’t bred for it and your IQ is over 70.

Of course, they’d mock even the idea of a cow being assaulted or raped, because the cow is supposedly not intelligent enough to understand the concept of assault and rape (i.e in our differently verbalized language, they still feel what is happening), the cow cannot spell the words assault or rape. So therefore, supposedly you can’t assault or rape them because they’re too dumb.

Although, they would of course be completely fine with calling the assaulting and raping of a human female on the IQ level of a cow assault and rape, it’s hypocritical on every level, perhaps they’d even say ”OH MY GOD THIS IS RAPE” if they walked in on some guy inserting his arm into their tied up pet dog’s anus, that is no more significantly intelligent than a cow either.

Or speciesists may dress it up in other abilities that are related to intelligence to make their bigot argument sound more complex, some examples would include:

  • ”Ability to understand morals and reciprocate the social contract.”

Same problem applies, some humans cannot adequately reciprocate ethics, here a favorite dishonest weasel tactic is of course to appeal to violent mentally handicapped humans that have been locked away for the sake of public safety to demonstrate how these individuals lost their right to freedom as well, but we’re not talking about their violence, just their retardation, and there are harmless retarded individuals that don’t need to be locked away, just like pigs, cows, chicken are harmless.

  • ”Ability to understand and speak in our language.”

Hilarious one too, that retarded mute cunt couldn’t talk back, so I just kept raping her.

  • ”Ability to write poems, philosophize and make scientific discoveries.”

Even average humans often can’t do that, so turn them into mince meat?

  • ”Ability to do math.”

So a calculator or a computer has more rights than an average human child?

  • ”Ability to think and plan ahead for the future.”

Same problem, not to mention that many animals can do this, but that’s a less important point.

And so on and so forth, ultimately it all boils down to the same concept – intelligence, and very obviously, intelligence is not why you want to avoid pain, if you legitimately believe that, you are delusional, psychotic, fundamentally disconnected from objective reality.

A butthurt attempt at downplaying the suffering of animals is then often times also that because these other animals are less intelligent, therefore can’t comprehend how to act rationally towards one another, we’re somehow allowed to be just as retarded, even when we know better.

  • ”Ha! Silly vegans, you all try to save the animals, but the fact is, these animals would eat you too if they got the chance!!! Look at nature, dog eat dog world, the lion is eating the zebra too so why shouldn’t we do the same???”

You are appealing to what retarded creatures that don’t know any better are doing, to justify you doing the same, even though you know better.

Imagine the following scenario, I work in a facility for mentally retarded humans, sometimes these disabled individuals are sexually assaulting and beating each other, because they lack the ability to think about and contemplate the ethical implications of their actions.

What would be the ethically responsible thing to do here?

  • 1 – Prevent them from sexually assaulting and beating each other.

Or:

  • 2 – Joining in and brutally raping a mentally disabled girl too because they did too.

Look, these retards don’t know any better, they would sexually assault you as well, so you might as well just join in and sexually assault them too. No problem.

Not to mention, other animals are largely completely harmless to you as well, pigs, cows, chicken generally don’t assault humans in some kind of dangerous manner, so that makes it even worse.

It’s not as though we’re talking about a lion attacking you, which we could analogize to a big, strong retarded person sexually assaulting you, we’re talking about a chicken that can’t seriously harm you, so this is pretty much like some sociopathic rapist saying you are under no obligation to not violently assrape a 3 year old with your fist because a 3 year old kicked you in the nuts once.

The 3 year old has no obligation not to punch me, so I don’t have an obligation not to punch the 3 year old either, checkmate you anti-child abuse idiots. You don’t punch 3 year olds? Well guess what, they would punch you because they don’t know any better, so I should do the same!

You get the point, ultimately supporting animal abuse because animals have a lower IQ is not a rational stance, it’s an irrational stance, and none of the dishonest tactics that speciesists use to justify this stand up to scrutiny in any way.

Are children sexual beings?

Somewhat important question I guess, some people who are against sexual relations between children/minors and adults, or even just between children/minors and other children/minors will kind of rely on that outdated notion.

Basically they’ll try to pretend that children/minors are completely asexual, so of course they have a reason to be upset when they find out their kid had sex, because that means that they must have been manipulated into said sex, because a child would never engage in sex voluntarily just on their own!

They never want to admit the sexuality came from the child itself, so they will blame anything else for ”sexualizing the child” which is not necessary, because the child is already sexual, so that wording is just dumb.

”Disney sexualized my child, there’s subliminal messaging in their movies, and it’s also the bad music kids are listening to nowadays making them want to fuck!”

Because parents probably feel disgusted by the thought of offspring being sexual, it feels like incest to think of your offspring as sexual beings.

Well, it’s simply wrong I would say though, it’s delusional, as if they have completely forgotten about their childhood/adolescence.

Yeah of course kids can be sexual, I humped balloons as a child and I started using my hand to jerk off by the time I was 12 or something. There you go, many more people with such anecdotes exist, I’m not the only one.

Also, I’d say some adults probably project their version of what their sexuality is onto kids and that’s why the thought of pedophilic/underage sex makes them so angry, so some traditionally dominant man might think of sex as penetrating a woman as hard as possible whilst beating her, so they are offended because they think that’s what pedophiles will do with little girls.

Sex can obviously be more than just penetration, I’m also putting touching or cuddling into the sex category, clearly those can be sexualized acts.

We all share the same motivation.

Something that inevitably comes up in most ethical discussions, especially when you point out to someone that they are supporting suffering, or that they are irrationally opposed to something that doesn’t result in suffering, is that they simply have a different ethic, so they can’t be criticized or held accountable for anything.

  • ”But I simply value something other than suffering, so I don’t have to care about anything you say, everything is relative, everyone just has a different opinion, I don’t care about suffering, and I’m entitled to my opinion, so now I’m gonna gass some jews and you can’t stop me!”.

I think this intellectually lazy type of argumentation misses a very fundamental point about the behavior of sentient organisms – we all share the same goal of avoiding harm, pain, suffering, negative sensation and the rules we make are just extensions of that first fundamental interest in avoiding negative sensations.

A deontologist is just a deluded consequentialist, who believes their particular moral rule/law to be conducive to the achievement of better consequences, i.e less suffering, if said deontologist did legitimately not believe the rule to be conducive to ultimately creating better consequences, they would not believe in their rule.

Take for example a religious terrorist, who believes he has to self-detonate in the middle of a gay pride parade, if you point out to someone like that that this is bad, because it will cause a lot of unnecessary (to prevent any greater sort of) suffering, he’ll likely say so what, suffering is not always bad or the main issue to be concerned with here, there are certain rules you just don’t break, and it’s simply against god’s rules to take a dick up your ass, full stop bro.

But that still doesn’t answer why he thinks he has to do the terrorist attack, a law/rule just doesn’t come out of nowhere, if you dig deep enough, chances are you’ll find that the terrorist is still motivated by a wrongly perceived threat of suffering.

He might think that if he doesn’t do the terrorist attack and eradicate the sinners, he’ll go to hell, which is a place of suffering, and if he does the terrorist attack, he’ll go to heaven, which is a place absent of all suffering. He might think that the sinners he’s about to attack are a threat of suffering, and if we accepted homosexuals, society would be infested with AIDS and rape.

So ultimately, he’s still acting based on (wrongly perceived) consequences, he’s not a real deontologist who believes in a moral rule for the sake of believing in said moral rule at all, he’s just a delusional consequentialist who made a false calculation about what will most efficiently eliminate suffering, because he believes in something unrealistic, a fable story with no evidence behind it and likely received wrong information about homosexuals his entire life.

Even if he would proclaim to be perfectly rational and wanting to kill the homosexuals because being gay is ”just wrong”, then he’s still motivated by suffering reduction, this feeling of ”just wrongness” is a form of suffering, and he tries to prevent it by doing what feels ”just right”.

Even if he’s just a sadistic sociopath who wants to cause suffering to others and uses his religion as an excuse for doing so, then he’s still motivated by the goal of suffering reduction, i.e he suffers from an urge to inflict suffering onto others for his pleasure, and the suffering of this urge is alleviated by inflicting suffering onto others, so then he’d still be motivated by the goal of reducing suffering, just also logically inconsistent in not thinking of suffering in the other organisms as just as worth preventing, because it’s the same thing – suffering.

It’d be like saying water from water bucket A should be used to water plants because it’s so perfectly wet and watery, but water from water bucket B should not be used to water plants, although it’s just as wet and watery. If suffering in meat suit A is worth preventing because it has the property ”it feels bad”, then so is suffering in meat suit B worth preventing, because it has the same property. If our terrorist thinks suffering is worth preventing when it happens to him because it feels bad, he should think the same way when it happens to everyone else, because it feels just as bad.

It’s bad when suffering is happening to you because suffering itself is bad, not because it’s happening to you in particular and you’re somehow more important than everyone else, if suffering were only bad when it happened to you, then so would pleasure be bad if it happened to you, because it’s in the same exact category – ”things that happen to you”.

  • If someone really believed that a rule had no utility, then they would not believe in said rule, we believe in rules because 1. they are or 2. we falsely believe them to be conducive to the reduction of our suffering in some way.

Pro-lifers, pro-choicers, authoritarians, libertarians, theists, antitheists all have the same goal, they all want to avoid suffering, it just happens to be the case that they all have different ideas about what will most efficiently achieve the goal of preventing more suffering in the grand scheme of things, authoritarians believe strict hierarchy will lead to a less chaotic society that will produce less suffering, libertarians believe in maximizing freedom because being locked in a cage causes suffering, the motivation is the same.

But once we’ve established that preventing suffering is the goal, it is possible to draw correct and incorrect conclusions about what will achieve the goal, and then we can definitively tell a pro-lifer that aborting a living, but non-sentient fetus doesn’t create any more suffering in the fetus than in living, but non-sentient vegetables when you chop them up and turn them into salad, their threat detection system is simply deficient, they just have to understand that if they were aborted, they would have never missed out on being alive from the unborn purgatory.

If I really abducted anyone of any religious or political orientation, locked them into my basement, tortured them for an extended period of time by putting their hands on the stove top until their hands are disfigured, beat them with a sledgehammer repeatedly, put nails up their asses, etc, and I made it crystal clear to them that this is for absolutely no compensation, no greater good or payment whatsoever for anyone at any point, they wouldn’t want that.

So to be clear, the game is not called ”push your hand onto the stove top until it’s disfigured for 5$ an hour to be donated to starving kids in Africa”, it’s just ”push your hand onto the stove top until it’s disfigured for no reason whatsoever”, they would universally try to escape, no doubt about it.

Unless they’re the one in a thousand extreme, Albert Fish-type masochists that get off on having nails shoved in their asses, in which case, there’d be a benefit and utility to be derived again – to reaching an orgasm, the relief of tension. So it’d still be an attempt to avoid suffering, no way around it.

So the point is, everyone acts based on suffering, we believe in rules because we believe these rules to be conducive to the reduction of our suffering, if we didn’t believe that to be the case, we wouldn’t believe in them anymore, rules are a mere result of consequences, an attempt at avoiding harms/pains/sufferings. No consequences – no need for rules.

And because thinking and calculating utility of actions requires more brain power than sticking to a simplistic, dogmatic rule, many stick to a dogmatic rule, going against the actual goal without noticing it in due time, e.g.

  • The pro-lifer may observe that generally taking human life results in suffering, so they’re against taking human life, even when it causes no suffering in a non-sentient fetus.
  • The jew-hider may observe that lying generally results in suffering, so they’re telling the nazis they’re hiding jews in their basement, even when it causes more suffering to happen than it prevents.
  • The conservative police officer may observe that breaking the law often results in suffering, so he thinks he’d doing something good by harassing someone for smoking marijuana, even when it causes more suffering to happen than it prevents.

It is delusional behavior. Imagine a hypothetical alien species that could also feel pain, and what they had to do in order to alleviate pain and achieve pleasure, relief, alleviation is wank their left tentacle, every action that they take could be boiled down to the masturbation of a left tentacle somewhere and somehow, or ultimately even, just the reduction of suffering as well of course, but let’s say jerking the left tentacle is instrumental to achieving that – without exception.

These aliens would also self-unawarely say things like:

  • ”I don’t only want to jerk off my left tentacle, you think I’m a mere pain and pleasure vessel??? You vulgar idiot, I’m but a very sophisticated alien, I also value watching plasma TV, taking a great long walk on the beach and buying a great, high quality block of swiss cheese. I have civilization, I have class. You think I’m just some dumb animal!?”.

But then when you observe this creature, all that it is doing is wanking its left tentacle in front of the plasma TV, digging a hole at the beach to stick their left tentacle in, and the swiss cheese, it also just sticks its left tentacle in its holes to shoot its alien jizz inside it.

The conclusion is obvious – these aliens are completely deluded about what the underlying motivation of their actions is, they have deluded themselves into believing that all sorts of different things have value, when the only value is in the experience itself, they’re just trying to jerk off and overcomplicating it.

And this is exactly how humans behave, they’re for some reason desperate to believe they’re not just simplistic organisms feeling pain, trying to avoid feeling pain, they are somehow much more sophisticated for valuing all sorts of different non-sense that the other primitive animals can’t understand, when in reality, they only value it because it in some way helps or they believe that it helps to achieve the goal of reducing pain.

  • What is value without suffering even supposed to mean?

What is ”I value x” even supposed to mean? When I say, ”I value eating potatoes” for example, all that that really means is that for some reason, eating potatoes reduces some sort of condition of suffering in me, maybe it is hunger, maybe it is appetite out of boredom, and eating the potato is conducive to reducing this condition of suffering, but obviously the potato itself is not valuable, the potato cannot create value as it simply doesn’t have a brain that can produce a sentient experience like I do, the good is the reduction of my suffering, not the potato itself.

I value the potato=I suffer if I don’t eat it.

I need/want/desire the potato=I suffer if I don’t eat it.

I have a personal preference for the potato=I suffer if I don’t eat it.

The objects themselves have no value, so to speak. An almong is neither good or bad, it might produce negative sensations in someone with an almond allergy, and in someone without an almond allergy but with a peanut allergy, almonds might cause pleasure, relief of suffering, whereas peanuts would cause the negative sensations, but the negative sensation is the same, it’s negative. So these objects, almonds and peanuts are neither good or bad, they only have extrinsic value to something else, i.e our experience, our experience is the only real value event happening.

  • The potato has no real value.
  • The almond has no real value.
  • The garbage truck has no real value.
  • The lamborghini has no real value.
  • The money has no real value.
  • Gold has no real value.
  • Platinum has no real value.

They only have extrinsic value to your experience, no real value. So if someone says something like ”you might value reducing animal suffering, but I value eating bacon much more!” – we can analyze and point out their mistake.

They only value eating bacon because eating bacon reduces the suffering of an urge to eat bacon inside them, the bacon itself is not a good because it doesn’t have a brain that can produce sensations with labels like good and bad, it’s the reduction of their suffering from an urge to eat it that is the real good, but if the reduction of the suffering itself is the good, and buying bacon obviously causes more suffering to pigs than it causes reduction in suffering in yourself, then obviously the better option for you would be to stop buying it to reduce even more suffering.

In conclusion, as stated before, a deontologist is just a deluded consequentialist, no one acts based on rules alone, rules are a result of the existence of consequences, if the problem of suffering did not exist, we wouldn’t have to make rules to mitigate against it and prevent it from happening.

If you have some kind of strict moral rule, like ”never fuck a corpse”, chances are you only believe in that rule because you believe the fucking of corpses to result in harm somewhere along the way, imagining someone fucking your dead mother right in front of you or something, then feeling offended by witnessing that incident, you don’t just believe it to be ”just wrong” without perceiving a threat to welfare first to motivate this feeling of ”just-wrongness”.

Things can be ethically wrong only according to a certain set of rules, and the only reason why rules are made is because there are consequences – suffering, and that is why we use the rules as a tool to try to avoid it, if the rule doesn’t serve that purpose anymore, then the rule is wrong, it fails to achieve the only pre-established purpose that it could possibly ever have.

That’s why it’s absurd when someone uses whatever right or rule they established as an excuse to not care about the harm they cause to others – ”it’s legal to rape my wife so it’s no problem”.

The reason why we crave laws in the first place is because suffering exists, so we make laws to protect ourselves and mitigate against it, if the law does not even achieve that goal though, then it’s essentially worthless, it doesn’t achieve the only goal that a sentient organism is even capable of having anymore.

Non-sentient bacteria have no laws but that is also completely irrelevant, because bacteria is not sentient, so the absence of laws and rights in a culture of bacteria not to be cannibalized by another bacteria is not a problem. The reduction of suffering is good, not the law itself.

Suffering, badness itself is the only bad thing in the universe, sentient experience is the only value creating thing in the entire universe, the objects, rights and entitlements on a piece of paper by themselves have no value, you eat the chocolate cake because it reduces your suffering, your urge to eat it, not because the chocolate cake itself is somehow a good, because it doesn’t have a brain.

If all sentient organisms went extinct tomorrow, chocolate cake would have absolutely zero (extrinsic) value, all chocolate cake can be liquidated forever, it would not matter, thinking otherwise would be completely delusional.

There is no goal for any sentient organism on this planet except to avoid harm, and if it no longer wants to avoid harm, it is no longer a sentient organism. You don’t have a different opinion at the core than any other organism, the nature of our disagreement lies in having different strategies to go on about our established goal of preventing suffering, and in this game, it is possible to judge your actions as correct or incorrect, you are bound by it, there is no way for you to escape the game.

The ”most are happy to have been born” argument.

A somewhat common objection to antinatalism/the idea that it is better not to be born is that most people are happy to have been born, and if you surveyed them anywhere, they’d say they’re happy to be alive, so how can one say that it’s good to stop the production of sentient life when most are happy with it?

I think the first and rather fundamental issue is that they would still not have missed being happy if they never came into existence in the first place, so there wouldn’t have been any harm to them in not bringing them here.

I would agree with Benatar’s asymmetry that preventing a bad is always good to do, but preventing a good is not always bad to do, only if the alternative to it is feeling bad, if you’re not hungry, it doesn’t matter if I throw the food in the trash, the absence of pleasure is only an ethical problem if it presents a deprivation for someone who is chasing after said pleasure.

Many other examples you could use to demonstrate that point – if you’re in a burning building, the absence of a fire extinguisher is a problem, if you’re not, then it’s not. If you have cancer, the absence of chemotherapy is a problem, but if you’re not, then it’s not. If suffering is no longer the alternative to the pleasure, its relief, then its absence cannot possibly be a problem either.

I don’t think not giving someone something that they don’t need/want/desire is an issue, and the non-existent don’t need/want/desire anything, because they simply don’t exist.

Of course you are happy that if you feel hunger, you relieve that hunger by eating, but that doesn’t mean that you would have been harmed by never being made into a hungry organism in the first place.

So I still don’t think that the fact alone that they are happy means there is a benefit that justifies all the bad unhappy experiences. It’s like saying a crack addict is happy when they get some new crack to smoke, that doesn’t answer the question of ”was it good for them to become addicted to crack in the first place?”.

People that exist right now are obviously already suffering from severe addictions, so unless they put some deeper thought into it, they can’t really grasp what it would be like if they weren’t here anymore.

  • ”I’m glad to have been born!” (as if something bad would have happened to them if they didn’t) isn’t really much of a rational utterance.

It’s an irrational reaction of them not being able to grasp that their absence could not be a problem. You wouldn’t complain about not having food in the next 5 hours if you knew you weren’t going to be hungry for it, so the way they talk about non-existence actually indicates they think that they would still experience a deprivation of their happiness.

This similarly applies to pro-lifers that argue for the rights of non-sentient fetuses to have a future, obviously the fetus is not sentient right now, so it can’t possibly be concerned with its future either, it doesn’t care whether or not it’s going to be sentient in the future, so you can’t possibly hurt that fetus by aborting it, but they still can’t get over their deeply engrained gut instinct that it somehow does and ask stupid questions like:

  • ”Well what if YOU got aborted, think you’d still be saying this shit???”

And this is the problem and where we get more into the psychology, do most people really grasp that not existing isn’t harmful, or do they imagine it as some kind of second life where they are missing out on all the fun things they like doing? I think it’s questionable.

Of course, if they imagine themselves to otherwise have been trapped and tortured in an unborn purgatory prior to birth, they’re going to irrationally conclude that every single torture they face in life is definitely worth it, i.e if someone who is dying of cancer right now on their death bed thinks that if they didn’t get born, then had their first orgasm at some point, they would’ve really missed out on that first orgasm from the pits of the unborn purgatory, to be eternally tormented, of course they’re going to think that now dying of cancer is definitely worth it for that first orgasm.

  • They are imagining it as ”I wouldn’t be here” from the perspective of ”I’m here right now, and then I would be really upset that I’m not here! That would make me angry not to exist!”.

It’s like I’m addicted to crystal meth, going through a lot of suffering and watching my face fall apart, and a genie in the bottle or the toothfairy offers me to take away my addiction in about three seconds by waving a magic wand, but I say no, because as an irrational addict, all I’m hearing is ”taking away my meth” instead of ”taking away my addiction for meth”, I’m so owned by the drug that I fail to even possibly imagine that it’s possible for the addiction to not exist.

I think if the life addicts got rid of this irrational perception, they couldn’t think that the first orgasm justifies dying of cancer later on anymore, because they know that they didn’t have any pre-existing need to experience need, no pre-existing want to experience want, no pre-existing desire to experience desire, so it’d be questionable why any of life’s suffering is worth it.

It’s just like they also think they’re still going to be alive and conscious after they’ve died, so they’re irrationally scared of death rather than the dying process, as if afterwards they’ll be a ghost and then look down on all the fun things to do that they’re now missing out on, when in reality they’re just going to be dead, so of course won’t experience any distress in response to no longer being able to eat chocolate cake. They just grasp that the goods will be gone, they fail to grasp that their need/want/desire for the goods will also be gone.

And of course, they will deny that this is the case and state that they know they haven’t been here before they were actually born, or they know they won’t suffer once they’re dead, but rationally comprehending something still doesn’t mean that you can’t falsely intuit there to be a harm in something, as in this case non-existence.

Many people simply seem intuitively terrified of death, we make associations between the painful dying process and death, it’s something that looks scary.

I can rationally comprehend that a little spider is not going to eat me alive, but still irrationally feel otherwise, there are certain deeply engrained intuitions that don’t necessarily make a lot of sense, take for example arachnophobia, the fear of even little spiders even though you know they won’t attack you, fear of non-existence is similarly irrational.

Their worship of life is also perfectly analogizable to a form of stockholm syndrome, that’s how life works, you experience unfulfilled desire, and if you fulfill it, another one pops up, like appetite out of boredom after hunger, or in time the initial desire, hunger, is going to return and you’ll have to eat again. They cannot imagine anything else, it’s all they know, it’s all we can experience.

We get continuously whipped by our needs, wants, desires, and sometimes we fulfill some of those needs, wants, desires, avoid some of that suffering of being whipped. You can observe that children for instance are until a certain age much less used to this mechanism of deprivation, they still feel raped by their desire and scream if they can’t get something they want in the middle of a supermarket, their flesh is still in the process of acclimating to the whip.

This is an uncomfortable state to be in, so at some point they adapt, and then they start being grateful and think life is their friend and has any purpose except to impose need conditions onto them that if not alleviated in time, will lead to even worse harm than before, sometimes the whip is hitting you less intensely, so now you’re happy that you’re getting whipped, because that makes you able to appreciate when the whip is not hitting you as intensely, perhaps even taking some kind of pleasure in the fact that other slaves are getting whipped harder.

The kids in Africa have no food to stave off the suffering of hunger, at least I have food to stave off the suffering of hunger, without ever fully coming to recognize that the existence of the suffering of hunger itself is suboptimal, it’s a deficit to experience hunger at all. If you didn’t exist, you wouldn’t be hungry anymore.

It is a harm to impose unfulfilled desires, plain and simple, you might as well say that when you whip people, some of them are really happy afterwards when you stop whipping them, so that then they can appreciate what it’s like to not get whipped anymore.

Pointing all of this out directly to others makes them uncomfortable, so another important aspect that should be pointed out here is also that if someone comes to these realizations, there’s also always a certain amount of social pressure from others against it. If there’s no unborn purgatory and the absence of me wouldn’t be a problem, then maybe the absence of you also wouldn’t be a problem, this has the potential to make others uncomfortable.

You can see this when someone is suicidal, even if they don’t know that person’s circumstances, their convictions are quite strong that there’s always something wrong with said suicidal person and that life must be worth it, there’s never a good reason to kill yourself, it’s a permanent solution to a temporary problem (as if it’s an issue to end a temporary problem permanently?), and if you question any of this, then automatically you must be mentally ill and wrong because you want to end life, and you want to end life because you’re mentally ill and wrong, it’s circularly justified.

So there’s not only illogical reasons that lead many of us to think that life is always worth it no matter what, but once the taboo is questioned, there’s also social pressure from viviocentrist fascists to keep pretending that life is always worth it no matter what.

Optimism-bias is a real thing, you risk being exposed to unpleasant social consequences by revealing your dissatisfaction, but there are many dissatisfied individuals on some kind of prescription, legal or illegal drug to get through the day, every day on planet earth there are at least one or two suicide attempts here and there.

So is just world-bias a real thing, people who consider themselves victims of life creation are unlikely to come out anyway because society is prone to shame anyone who complains about anything, you don’t really hear their opinions because they’d just be told to toughen up anyway.

  • Not to forget the imposition aspect.

Another aspect to point to and explain is also that using ”most are happy to have been born” as a breeder to defend yourself is also kind of like saying you’re a good gambler, so therefore, it’s justified to risk someone’s welfare by gambling for them, because most people are happy that you gambled for them when you won the game.

It’s a useless game to start with, so that makes it even more absurd, because again, the absence of pleasure is only be a problem if someone is experiencing being deprived of it, there is no one who needs the money.

So a more fitting, better analogy would be you take money to a gambling house where you can only either:

  1. Win back the exact amount of money you put in.
  2. Lose more money than you initially put in.

Absolutely none of your victims have any desire for you to risk their money and then win it back, they are completely apathetic about it you winning money back for them that they already had, and much of the time they don’t even get everything back, only half or a quarter of it, and then you justify all the losses you create by saying that you also ”win” sometimes, you win back the money you put in.

Then in practice, something to point out is also that you’re playing with high risks. If you’re about to gamble with someone else’s money, it’d at least be great to know that you’re going to win the game, or if you’re about to practice surprise anal sex on someone, it’d at least be great to know that they’re going to be into it, this is almost impossible to fully ensure with the life gamble, even if someone might be happy with it afterwards, the list of possible risks isn’t low.

I don’t go around and make someone happy here and there by practicing surprise anal sex on them, it’s generally more important that I don’t traumatize someone who doesn’t want surprise anal sex by sticking my dick in their ass in their sleep.

Some might be happy about it, but wouldn’t have been terribly devastated by me not fucking them in the ass either, some might come to cope with it after the fact and rationalize what happened as not so bad, just like many do the exact same with life in general and rationalize everything that happens to them as not so bad, and some will be completely traumatized about it.

And again, making people happy by creating them is even dumber than doing it by surprise anal sex, at least you can argue that there are some already existent people that would enjoy getting surprise anal sex, and they can suffer from not getting the surprise, but non-existent people do not exist, they don’t have any desires to fulfill.

Not even taking into account any kind of genetic defects, any possible illness or any crime of other organisms the child could fall victim to, the fact that they’ll die one day which will likely not be too pleasant, even if you create a sentient organism with unfulfilled desires and you always fulfill them just in time, you always risk money, then win it back just in time, said organism can still randomly get hit by a car and suffer from an unfulfilled desire to not get hit by said car, or get struck by lightning randomly and suffer from an unfulfilled desire to not get struck by lightning.

Accidents happen to the happiest still – one wrong move and you’re fucked, and with most cases of procreation it’s perfectly fair to say that these procreators have no absolute guarantee that nothing will go wrong when they’re about to procreate.

There’s a possibility for great failure and the absence of possibility for their happiness is obviously never a problem until they are created, so why should even one accident be justified? There we’re back to the asymmetry argument, natalists are essentially arguing that it’s acceptable to inflict harm for unnecessary pleasure, our top priority is surprise anal sex and all the traumatized victims can go fuck themselves in the ass.

So ultimately, I think that this argument of ”most people are happy to have been born/are glad to be be here” is an emotional reaction largely based on them not comprehending this fundamental asymmetry of prevented pleasure not being a problem for the non-existent as they do not experience desires, and why they’re making said argument could be motivated by many different factors from stockholm syndrome to real social pressure from viviocentrist fascists not to talk about dissatisfaction with life, but it doesn’t seem to come from any place of rational inquiry, there’s no reason to think it’s an argument for the production of sentient organisms in the grand scheme of things.

The idea that suffering can be good.

An idea often espoused in response to hearing about antinatalism or just in general as a delusional coping mechanism with life is that suffering can be good sometimes, individuals like Jordan Peterson for instance get celebrated for speaking to people with this type of ”tough love” approach, and telling them that life is suffering but it’s all worth it, we shouldn’t just stop the production of suffering-capable organisms.

The idea behind this general idea of suffering supposedly being good sometimes and we shouldn’t just prevent it all from happening by stopping the production of sentient, suffering life (e.g. humans, other mammals, insects, not necessarily fruits, vegetables, fungi) right away is that basically when you suffer, it builds character, strength and resilience that you will need to deal with aforementioned sentient life, or it might be a warning signal of some sort.

The issue with this should be obvious though – negative sensation itself is by definition bad just like water is watery, it is literal badness, a negative sensation/experience of some sort, the fact that sometimes one suffering is required to avoid an even greater suffering doesn’t prove suffering itself to be good. Suffering, badness itself, is bad.

For example, if we have to torture one person to prevent a billion from being tortured just as intensely and there’s nothing else we can do about it, then it’s the lesser of two evils, but the torture itself still feels bad, it’d be better if we could prevent it by cutting up an apple instead. If you say negative sensations can be positive, you might as well say wet is dry or hot is cold, it automatically cannot be anything but contradictory, good suffering is an oxymoron.

Sometimes in life, you have to experience one suffering to avoid an even greater one, but that doesn’t mean that suffering itself is good, that just proves it’s less bad than the more intense form of suffering that otherwise would have happened.

An example would be the painful vaccination in order to avoid a much worse disease you’d otherwise be prone to dying of, but you’re getting it exactly because suffering is bad, because suffering from an illness would be worse than one little needle prick in your arm for a few uncomfortable seconds. If you could snap your fingers in order to obtain the immunity, you would do that instead. The pain itself is bad, the good is the immunity to the illness.

Pain is a warning signal is also something that defenders of suffering will often say, i.e you feel your hand being burned on the stove top so you pull it away.

Again, we can demonstrate again that it’s not the pain itself that is good, but the avoidance of the greater pain, if you could be informed of the danger by something else without the pain, like someone standing next to you who notices it quicker always simply reminding you you’re about to burn yourself before you accidentally leave your hand on the stove top for too long, you would go for that instead of burning yourself to any degree at all.

So we can notice a pattern here in all of these situations where suffering is supposedly good, the person only falsely identifies it as good because it later on results in the prevention of an even greater form of suffering, and if the person could prevent the greater suffering without having to inflict a lesser suffering onto themselves, like snapping their fingers instead of getting an injection, then they would take that less painful option.

Why would you need a warning signal to prevent the worse pain of completely burning your hand on the stove top from happening instead, if pain is not a problem? You wouldn’t, so suffering can have instrumental value to the avoidance of a greater suffering sometimes, that doesn’t prove negative sensation itself to be simultaneously positive.

Suffering makes you stronger they say, but why do you even need to be stronger? Right, only to avoid more suffering associated with being weaker, thus vulnerable to more suffering in the future. If suffering is only ”good” because it helps you to avoid more suffering in the future, then that if anything proves that suffering is bad, because you’re only bearing said suffering to avoid even more of it in the future.

The only reason why you even need more character, strength and resilience built out of suffering in your life to begin with is to later on deal with more potential suffering emerging in your life, to not fall into deep despair upon being faced with adversity and challenges, so it actually doesn’t prove suffering to be good, it proves suffering to be bad.

When your hamster died of cancer, it was ”good for you” because it desensitized you to you later on seeing your mother die of cancer.

  • But why is it good to be desensitized to your mother dying of cancer?

Only because otherwise you’d suffer even more intensely from witnessing that incident, which is bad, it’s the avoidance of that suffering which is the real good which the suffering of seeing your hamster die has only been instrumental to achieving, not the suffering itself, suffering itself is always bad, just like all water is watery and all shit is shitty.

Negative sensations are indeed not positive. Going with the lesser of two evils doesn’t make it no longer feel bad, just less bad than the other bad. The needle in your arm still produced a negative sensation, it’s just that getting a disease would hurt even more, if you could snap your fingers to grant yourself immunity to illness, you’d probably do that instead.

If someone holds a gun to your head and forces you eat either one bucket of horse shit or ten buckets of horse shit, that doesn’t mean that one bucket of it suddenly tastes good, it just tastes less bad than ten buckets of horse shit.

The fact that suffering sometimes happened prior to a good event doesn’t mean that it is good, if a fire burns down your house in the winter and now you’re sitting in the cold, that doesn’t prove fire to be cold. Now you might be sitting in the cold, but the fire burned your house down exactly because it was hot.

  • But what about masochists?

Even a masochist ramming a needle into his urethra or a depressed individual cutting their arm isn’t enjoying suffering – they are enjoying the relief of a suffering they are already experiencing, merely using a pain to eliminate a greater pain.

A masochist will experience intensified sexual frustration if he doesn’t inflict pain onto himself, then leading to him becoming more tense and pressurized, thus ultimately more suffering in the long run.

A depressed person will experience intensified depression or other negative states if they don’t cut their arm, so they cut their arm to blend out the worse pain with the pain in their arm, so to speak.

If I told anyone beforehand who has absolutely zero masochistic preferences that I’m a magician and could it make it so that by snapping my fingers, they won’t be able to have an orgasm anymore unless they cut their eyeballs out and rub some chili sauce in their sockets, set their pubic hair on fire and extract every tooth they have with a plier, they wouldn’t want me to do that.

Perhaps they would even use lethal violence to prevent me from doing that, they would rather be able to cum without having to inflict intense suffering onto themselves, because all suffering is bad, just like all water is watery, all shit is shitty, if the masochist could get the exact same relief without the pain involved, they would do so.

Sometimes, some extreme masochists may find themselves in a situation where they have to do these things to avoid sexual frustration, which is a form of suffering, but if you could choose beforehand to get the exact same amount of pleasure from something else, you wouldn’t want to be the one who has to extract all their teeth with a plier in order to cum.

So what is happening here is essentially that as a delusional coping mechanism, when suffering is experienced by people, they observe that it is sometimes the lesser of two evils to bear one suffering over another even worse form of suffering, like the sensation of the needle pricking your arm to avoid a worse illness like small pox.

Then, they fall victim to the delusional conclusion that this now means that even when the suffering in question is not required to avoid a greater suffering, it is still good, because somehow, bad feelings can somehow be good, wet can somehow be dry, hot can somehow be cold.

I get that it’s a delusional coping mechanism which might help some of them to get through the day, but it’s a problem that they even have to get through a day where they require such a coping mechanism to begin with, and it certainly becomes a problem when this coping mechanism is used to justify all sorts of suffering that isn’t required for the avoidance of any greater problem.

  • War? Whatever, pain is a warning signal.
  • Factory farming? Whatever, suffering creates great wisdom.
  • Children dying of starvation in Africa? Pull yourself up by the bootstraps.
  • You have terminal cancer? Whatever, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.

It’s being used as an excuse for not fixing problems.

The problem with this ”suffering is good” approach in the context of reproductive ethics (natalism vs. antinatalism, to procreate or not to procreate) used by pro-natalists and pro-lifers should also be rather obvious – there is no unborn purgatory from which children need to be rescued, no one is spared from a worse fate by being reproduced.

It’s true that once you exist, you sometimes have to tolerate one suffering to avoid an even greater one, but obviously before the child actually exists, the child doesn’t actually exist, so it’s not somehow worse off, suffering in an unborn purgatory, lamenting that their parents that don’t reproduce them are somehow subjecting them to worse suffering in the unborn purgatory than by subjecting them to life on earth.

You’re just creating a pain machine to be motivated by that pain to try to avoid that pain again, there’s nothing efficient or productive about that, the suffering caused by reproduction is not instrumental to avoiding some kind of greater pain that exists in the universe.

So if we use the vaccination example again, the child might need the vaccination to avoid a much more painful illness once it exists, that is true, but obviously, before it existed, it didn’t need to become prone to that illness it now needs to be vaccinated against in the first place, it wasn’t sitting around in the unborn purgatory thinking:

  • ”I wish I became prone to small pox so that I can get a vaccination against it one day! Why do I have to suffer from an urge to obtain an urge to avoid illnesses?”

That the child is prone to illness in the first place is the fault of the parents that produced it, so it would still be perfectly rational for the child with a fear of needles to blame their parents for even creating its proneness to illness in the first place without knowing whether or not the child will be fine with that later on.

This same line of reasoning is then of course even used to justify more child abuse on top of reproduction:

  • ”The child needs to be spanked!”

Why?

  • ”To learn discipline!”

But why does the child need to learn to be disciplined?

  • ”To toughen up and compete with others, get a good job! Hardship builds great character!”

But why do they need to be resilient and successful in life? Right, because otherwise they will fail to acquire resources to fulfill certain needs, wants, desires in their life, they won’t be as fulfilled and satisfied, perhaps not achieve their goals in life due to said lack of discipline.

  • And who’s to blame for that?

You are to blame for them experiencing those needs, wants, desires they need to fulfill to avoid being tortured by them, because you imposed those needs, wants, desires onto them by reproducing them in the first place, non-existent individuals don’t need, want, desire anything.

It’s like I create a some sort of sadistic game, call it torture and the carrot, where I’m locking you in my basement and tell you that in order to obtain food for further survival, the carrot, you have to saw your left hand off. Then I can justify cutting your little finger off, because that will get you used to pain and desensitize you to later on getting your entire left hand cut off, which you have to do to obtain the carrot or starve to death. See, I’m actually doing you a favor I could say, I’m helping you get closer to the carrot!

See the problem? The problem with this is that I created that problem of you being in need of the carrot in the first place. It’s true that sometimes children have to learn to be disciplined (though highly questionable if beating them will achieve that) to not fail later on in life, but they only have to do that in the sense that if they completely fail at life, they’ll fail to fulfill needs, wants, desires that the procreator instilled into them by not aborting them before they became conscious.

The procreator creates the sick torture and carrot game, sometimes the child now has to endure hardship to get to the carrot, so the procreator justifies giving the child a spanking so it’ll be more desensitized to the more intense hardships and adversities later on in life, but all of this is only a problem if the procreator puts the child into this torture game where you have to bear torture to avoid even worse torture in the first place, which they still haven’t explained why anyone should think that’s a worthwhile endeavor.

If little billy is not created, he doesn’t need to be spanked harder to be more disciplined in order to obtain a good job requiring his emotional resilience and strength later on in life in order to avoid suffering from a low income and being a loser, non-existent little billy does not suffer from an urge to obtain an urge to obtain a job to obtain enough money to fulfill his needs in life from the unborn purgatory in this very moment.

So first you abuse the child by imposing the threat of deprivation on it – need, want, desire, i.e do x or suffer, and then you justify making the child suffer as a necessary evil by disciplining it to desensitize it to later on facing even more intense suffering which will be instrumental to avoiding only some of the suffering you have imposed on it by creating the threat of deprivation in the first place, that seems rather absurd.

Bullying is another great example of this flawed thought process of ”good suffering”.

First you were all skinny and weak, were called a faggot and beaten up in school every day, every girl denied you access to her vagina, then you started working out, taking steroids and beating the shit out of everyone and now you’re drowning in pussy because now you’re much stronger.

  • Totally proves that negative sensations must be good, right?

Wrong, because again, even if the suffering helped you toughen up which then later on resulted in you staving off the suffering of sexual frustration by finally being tough enough to be sexually selected for by some females, the suffering itself you experienced was still bad, the experience of getting bullied was not enjoyable regardless of whether or not it helped you to avoid an even more unenjoyable experience at some point.

Now you exist, so now you need to stick your peepee in a vagina to avoid even worse suffering from not doing so, but when you didn’t exist, you were not trapped in an unborn purgatory, needing to need to stick your peepee in a vagina to avoid even worse suffering, thinking to yourself ”Man, I wish I had to stick my peepee in vaginas in order to avoid suffering sexual frustration, unfortunately my parents won’t impose sexual needs onto me by reproducing me”.

You need it now, but you didn’t need to need it, your parents put you in need by reproducing you, it’s a net negative, you didn’t want to want it before you wanted it, you didn’t desire to desire it before you desired it.

So ultimately, whilst you already exist where you have to tolerate negative sensations from time to time to avoid an even higher amount of negative sensations in the future, the negative sensation itself is always bad, just like water is always watery and shit is always shitty, and before sentience evolved in this universe, the universe was not somehow worse off without us, starving for sentient organisms to be put inside of it.

  • There was no pre-existing damage to fix, we are the damage.

The faulty idea that suffering is good is largely used to justify its continued infliction, it might help one as a coping mechanism to get through the day once in a while to believe it’s all happening for some kind of greater good, but the fact that you even need to get through a day to begin and tell yourselves these lies is a negative, a problem – you are in need, you’re in desperation.

And if we don’t start being more honest about the fact that suffering is bad, procreators will keep putting organisms into situations where they have to tell themselves that suffering is good to cope with life.

The reason why you need that coping mechanism in your life to begin with is because procreators keep creating problems, in an emotional state where they themselves are falling victim to the exact same coping mechanism, thinking:

  • ”Suffering is good, might as well breed, if my children suffer horribly and die of cancer, it’s gonna be real good somehow, it’s just gonna toughen them up!”.

Once suffering exists, it can be necessary to bear one suffering to avoid an even greater one, but the existence of suffering itself to begin with is unnecessary in the grand scheme of things, the universe was never somehow worse off without sentient organisms inside it, our suffering serves absolutely no greater good.

On retributivism and punishment.

Eye for an eye notions, retributivism and punitivity are profoundly intuitive to many, the idea that we ought punish someone for the sake of punishing them, that once you’ve done x, you deserve to have x punishment done to you, the idea that we shouldn’t without restraint harm a child rapist who is no longer a threat and sitting in a prison cell all day offends them deeply.

They may say something like:

  • ”Why shouldn’t we shove a broomstick up this evil rapist’s asshole, why would that be bad to do that if he did the same thing?”

The answer is obvious – for the exact same reason why it was bad when he stuck his dick up the child’s ass – because it causes pain and suffering, which is always bad.

Sometimes you may tolerate one suffering to avoid a greater one, like getting the vaccination to avoid the greater suffering of a deadly disease, or tolerating a boring workplace to obtain money, which you also only need to obtain resources that help you prevent some condition of suffering in your life in one way or another, but suffering itself is always a bad thing.

Even a masochist hurting themselves for sexual pleasure or a bipolar individual cutting themselves for emotional relief are not enjoying negative qualia (it is impossible for negative qualia to be enjoyable) – self-harmers are already experiencing suffering, so to blend out that worse suffering, they have to inflict pain onto themselves, using pain to eliminate a greater pain, for the masochist it would be sexual frustration, for the cutter it might be depression.

So if harm (negative qualia) is always bad, then it can never be the better option to inflict it, unless it prevents an even greater, more intense harm, i.e you see the child rapist raping the child, so you push him off that child to prevent more harm.

The problem with this in the context of punishment is that when the harm causer is being punished, they are usually already detained, that’s kind of implied in the act of punishment – it is an act of violence against the harm causer after the threat the harm causer poses has already been deactivated, otherwise it would just be an act of defense. It might be perceived as punishing by the harm causer, but it’s not for the sake of retribution, punishment.

So while it is perfectly justified for you to defend against the rapist whilst he is raping the child to prevent harm, it would be illogical to insist on punishing him after he has already been stopped and is already spending his whole day in a prison cell where he can no longer assault children anyway.

It was bad when he raped the child because it caused harm, plus he didn’t need to do that in order to defend himself against some kind of greater threat posed by the child, the child was not a threat, but for that exact same reason, it’s now arguably also bad if you shove a broomstick up his ass after he has already been stopped from raping the child, it’s the exact same negative qualia experienced by different subjects, and that negative qualia is not good.

Eye for an eye notions of retributivism are frequently based in human bigotry, cognitive biases, narcissism and delusion, they essentially believe it to be bad to harm feeling things for the wrong reason on a very instinctive, primitive, emotional level, which is why they then fail to acknowledge it as just as bad when abuse is happening to criminals in prison.

So for example, when your mother gets brutally murdered, you may have some kind of gut feeling telling you that this is only bad because it happened to your mother in particular, in which case, it’s not a problem if it happens to the murderer of your mother, because he isn’t your mother, so it wouldn’t be bad to harm him like it was bad when he harmed your mother.

But in reality of course, what happened to your mother was bad because she is a sentient, suffering-capable organism and it doesn’t get any more complicated than that, if it were only bad because it happened to your mother, then it wouldn’t be bad if it happened to literally anyone else who is not your mother, which is simply untrue, it would still cause negative sensation to have a knife in your throat, even someone didn’t give birth to you.

But, that’s of course also why it’d be bad if the murderer of your mother had a knife in his throat, because he’s also a sentient, suffering-capable organism.

Or when a pretty, cute girl gets brutally raped, you may have some kind of gut feeling telling you that this is only bad because she’s pretty and cute, in which case, it’s not a problem if it happens to her rapist, because he’s most likely not that pretty and cute, so it wouldn’t be bad to harm him like it was bad when he harmed the pretty girl.

But in reality of course, what happened to the girl was bad because she is a sentient, suffering-capable organism and it doesn’t get any more complicated than that, if it were only bad because it happened to someone pretty and cute, then it wouldn’t be bad if it happened to literally anyone else who is not pretty and cute, which is simply untrue, it would still cause negative sensation to get raped even if you’re ugly.

But, that’s of course also why it’d be bad if the rapist of that girl got raped, because he’s also a sentient, suffering-capable organism.

Obviously none of these factors that people ascribe some kind of superficial value to are ultimately important to them, the point here is that the harm itself is bad, it’s not bad based on your nepotistic delusions of it only being bad when it happens to your family, women and/or children that elicit some kind of primitive instinctive reaction in you.

If I put any sentient organism in an isolated cell where it cannot possibly pose a threat and torture it, it’s going to be unambiguously bad, no matter what, it will produce negative sensations, no way around it.

It’s usually done for the fleeting emotional pleasure that the victims or angry mobs derive from punishing someone, in which case they then grant the harm causer the right to justify his deeds based on the fleeting emotional pleasure he derived from causing harm.

  • ”But what if the rapist raped your sister? You’d want him dead too!”

But what if you were the rapist? You’d want to rape too!

If you would be the person that wants to do x, you would want to do x too, therefore, doing x is now justified, that seems to be the idea here.

If you want to put Ted Bundy on the electric chair for the purpose of jerking off to it, then so can he consistently keep justifying violently killing women for the purpose of jerking off to it, it’s the same exact justification, you’re both arguing it’s ok to inflict torture so you can jerk off to it.

In many cases, retributivists then justify this sort of behavior by arguing that it is necessary:

  • ”But he could still attack a prison guard!”

In which case, that problem could be solved by just sending more than one prison guard to his cell the next time, rape and murder remain unnecessary harms, because these harms are not required to detain the threat being posed – unless it legitimately happens in a moment of defense against the criminal.

  • ”But he could escape prison!”

Unlikely, but if it’s true, that problem could be solved by just building more steadfast prison walls, rape and murder remain unnecessary harms, because these harms are not required to detain the threat being posed by the criminal.

  • ”But that costs money!”

Which is the least harmful method of defending yourself against the threat. Some individuals cause a lot of harm, so we put these individuals into a home where they cannot cause a lot of harm anymore for the purpose of public safety. I think paying a certain amount of money generally produces less harm than being forced to wait to be executed.

Some may argue that life in prison is actually worse than being executed, but the point is that once a criminal is detained, there is no reason to not consult them on this matter first, I am not against the right to die, it’s just unnecessary to take the ability to decide their fate away from them, plus, again, prisons don’t have to be torture facilities that make someone suicidal in the first place.

If they wanted the death penalty, it wouldn’t be a penalty anymore, it would just be making use of the right to die, which we can have regardless of our criminal status.

  • The only good argument for punishment would be deterrence.

So let’s say we just took the concept again of taking any sentient organism, putting it in a cell and torturing it, but it had to be done just once to prevent an even more intense harm from befalling everyone, let’s say everyone going to hell and burning alive over and over again eternally. In that case, it would still be bad, but it would obviously be less bad than not doing it.

The problem here again though is that it’s usually far from being this clear cut when it comes to crime and punishment. And the distinction between guilty/criminal and innocent/non-criminal remains insignificant, if anyone had to killed to save 1000 others from torture, and there were nothing else we could do about that, it’d be the better option to kill one regardless of their criminal status.

  • Detainment is still deterrence.

No sentient organism wants to be restrained in any way, again, unless it releases another restraint they already experienced, like a masochist being more tense and frustrated if he doesn’t inflict pain onto himself, and you have no way of knowing the exact preferences of all potential criminals. A reduction of your freedom is still a deterring factor, to some it may be a greater one than death, to some it may not be.

  • You don’t necessarily always know if you’re going to prevent a greater harm.

Unlike in the aforementioned hypothetical scenarios I just pointed to, you don’t necessarily know if you’re going to prevent more harm than you cause, perhaps you stick a broomstick up someone’s ass but all the harm you prevented from happening was 5$ being stolen, that’d be bad.

Let’s say you know for sure you could prevent a lot of people from stealing a potato by cutting their hands off and burning them alive in the streets, just the infliction of that punishment would be worse than a potato being stolen once in a while.

  • Althroughout human history and to this day, draconian punishment has been inflicted and crimes have still been committed.

We’ve inflicted torturous draconian punishments on prisoners but their optimism bias was still strong enough for them to believe that they’re never going to get caught, then got caught, tortured to death, and people still committed crimes thinking they’re never going to get caught, optimism bias and overestimation of one’s own invincibility is strong in many humans in general, criminal or non-criminal, but especially when you’re committing a crime (exception of some calculated criminals of course), you might already be in a rather impulsive mental state.

  • You don’t know what exact effect the punishment will have on each potential future criminal. Perhaps it demotivates them to commit crime, perhaps it leaves them neutral about their crimes, perhaps it motivates them to commit even more crimes.

In fact, countries like Norway where prisons look like hotel rooms seem to have the lowest crime rates, whereas a lot of countries that punish rather severely seem to have much higher crime rates.

What if you threaten a potential serial rapist and killer whose goal it is to bring all whores to justice with death, then he rapes and kills even more whores out of spite, then shoots himself, whereas if he were only to be threatened with a debate about whether or not raping whores is good or bad in a 5 star hotel, he would turn himself in to tell us all about it? You threaten the enraged school shooter with death and then he wants to shoot everyone even more for what he thinks is doing the right thing.

We stick a broomstick up the rapist’s asshole.

  • Rapist 1 one stops raping because he wouldn’t like to experience that.
  • Rapist 2 with poor impulse control just jizzes on her belly instead of her pussy next time and runs away in disorientation.
  • Rapist 3 is pissed off for first being denied the pussy he wanted and now wants to take revenge against society for threatening him with torture for intruding vaginas that he considers his private property.
  • Rapist 4 is in addition to being a sadistic rapist also a masochist who wouldn’t necessarily mind having a broomstick shoved up his ass.
  • Rapist 5 gets an adrenaline rush from the fact that we now stick broomsticks up people’s asses for raping, that makes the whole rape game and trying not to get caught even more exciting.

Retributivists often have an irrational belief that criminals are ”just evil” with no explanation for it and all you got to do is just threaten them with death, they can’t be suicidal because that would mean that these monsters have feelings, when in reality, they’re of course ”just evil” out of nowhere.

They devalue criminals, so chances are they’re not even deeply contemplating the emotions and what could possibly motivate them. In that mindset, if they feel that alienated from them, of course they’re going to think it’s as simple as carry some garlic around and the evil vampires won’t attack you.

Punishment for the sake of punishment is bad anyway because all harm itself, the state of being harmed is bad, doesn’t matter if it’s a cute little girl or some fat ugly serial rapist, so pure retributivism is a failure, it’s an irrational concept.

If it’s done to prevent a greater harm, it’d be better to have the information on whether or not said punishment is actually efficient at preventing future harm, which in practice seems almost impossible to tell beforehand.

Therefore, for all intents and purposes, in practice, it still seems more sensible for the default position to simply be not to inflict harm on someone once you’ve stopped them from causing harm, unless you can demonstrate in that specific scenario that it will prevent a greater future harm, if it’s clear cut, i.e cut one hand off to stop a thousand hands from being cut off, nothing else you can do, then you cut one hand off, but in real life it usually simply isn’t that clear cut.

The power imbalance argument.

Something that pedophobes bring up is often times that a relationship between a child/minor and an pedophile/adult must be harmful, because the adult has authority over the underaged individual in some way, therefore it’s by default abusive if any kind of sexual act takes place between them.

The problem with this argument is rather simple to expose, it presupposes right away that having power is the same as abusing that power, which falls apart when you examine it in any other context. Power imbalances exist in all different areas of life, that doesn’t mean that every time there is a power imbalance, abuse is taking place.

Let’s say a minor is doing garden work for an adult for a little extra pocket money, now some person comes around the corner and accuses the adult of abusing his authority to blackmail children into doing slave labor in their garden. Likely, you would ask for evidence for such an assertion, that this is the case and not just a baseless accusation.

Did they use their supposed authority to threaten the minor in some way?

Then in that case, we can indeed conclude that they abused their authority, they exploited a minor’s vulnerability to benefit from the situation, causing harm to the minor.

But this isn’t assumed to be obvious, you need evidence for that, did they really do that? Because the minor obviously could have wanted the extra pocket money as well, and in that case, it’d be hardly rational to have a problem with the minor doing the garden work.

An adult (non-sexually) hugs a volunteering child – is this equivalent to forced, non-consensual hugging because the child is incapable of consenting due to the adult’s higher level of power? I don’t think so, you’d need evidence the power was actually used to force the child into it.

  • In the case of sex though, pedophobes don’t care about evidence.

If the minor were to have sex with an adult, they would automatically assume that they must have abused their authority and power to coerce the minor to have sex in some way, they automatically imagine that there is no other variable, obviously they blackmailed the minor in some way.

  • And why do they assume that?

Because of another false assumption that they have likely already made, which is that children/minors are by default asexual and ”innocent” (as if sex then makes one guilty), so they would never on their own be interested in having sex, especially not with an older person, when in reality, obviously we can easily find a scenario where a 14 year old boy would fuck his hot female teacher, not because she threatened him with a worse math grade, but because he simply wants to get off in something other than his hand.

And that’s the issue here. Pedophobes are able to imagine that a minor wants money from an older person over the holy age, and would therefore voluntarily do garden work for that money, but pedophobes don’t like to imagine that a minor could possibly also want sex from an older person over the holy age, so they automatically assume that whenever sex between a child/minor and an adult happens, it must be the result of power abuse and manipulation, no way around it.

If they admitted that the issue is manipulating someone into sex, then they’d actually have to stop opposing sex between minors and adults in cases where the minor was not manipulated into sex but simply wanted to have sex, so instead they make a completely moronic argument that somehow just having power in and of itself is abuse, and only in this sexual context.

  • Adult has authority over 14 year old in school, 14 year old voluntarily does garden work for adult for extra pocket money – not abusive despite power imbalance.
  • Adult has authority over 14 year old in school, 14 year old voluntarily sticks dick in adult – somehow abusive because of power imbalance.
  • Father has physical strength advantage over 6 year old daughter, 6 year old daughter consents to be lifted up by him – not abusive despite power imbalance.
  • Pedophile has physical strength advantage over 6 year old girl as well, 6 year old girl consents to ride on his leg for sexual pleasure – somehow abusive because of power imbalance.

They (likely already) made a false assumption, which is that children are asexual and would never possibly want sex, so they are basing their assumption that if sex between a minor and an adult happens, it must be the result of power abuse on that first fundamentally false assumption that children would only have sex if they have been manipulated, blackmailed, forced into it by some evil pedophile propagandist abusing his power over children.

The power imbalance argument is then often used as an argument to justify sex between children as well, but then somehow put a ban on sex between children and adults.

As in, if a child willingly has sex with another child, that is fine because it is assumed they have the same level of power in that situation (which isn’t always true either, some children have more power than other children, there’s nothing that says children couldn’t be child molesters and rapists too), but if it’s happening between a child and a pedophile, they say the adult has power over the child, therefore, it must be abusive, no way around it.

This is extremely flawed and disordered thinking, because the adult’s power doesn’t suddenly negate the child’s willingness, just like the power of adult doesn’t necessarily mean the child didn’t do the garden work or hug them voluntarily. Of course the adult might be more able to manipulate and coerce the child if they wanted to do so, but if they don’t even have to do that, and the child still wants to have sex just like it wanted to have sex with the other child, then there’s no more evidence to assume abuse in that situation than in child on child sex. Why would there be?

The bigot in that case is already admitting that children sometimes do want to have sex with other children without it being the result of some sort of manipulation tactic, but then when the child has sex with an adult just as willingly for the exact same sexual pleasure, it’s suddenly abusive again just because the adult has more power that they could use to force and coerce the child, and the fact that the adult has power is seen as evidence that they did that.

Even if the adult never does that and the child just wanted to be sexually stimulated as they wanted to be sexually stimulated by the other child, because power automatically equals abuse somehow, no distinction, as if they just forgot again that children are not asexual and can want to have sex without being manipulated into it. They almost grasped that children can be sexual even if they are not manipulated into it, then they forgot it again, too bad.

Then, they again also only apply this reasoning to sex of course, whereas ultimately it would become questionable how any interaction between children and adults can be anything but abusive by this backward, moronic standard. How is it allowed for a father who has a physical strength advantage to lift up his consenting 8 year old daughter? He has power over her, so even if she consents to be lifted up by him, she was obviously abused because he has power over her! Power=abuse.

The child wants the ice cream, the adult gives the child the ice cream, this is abusive I could just as easily argue, because obviously the adult has more power than the child and could too easily coerce the child into accepting the ice cream, so therefore, the fact that that adult has power over the child is enough evidence for me, obviously the child was abused.

It’s never ok to give a child ice cream, no matter how much the child wants it. How do you ultimately know the child didn’t just take the ice cream because it was scared to death of the adult’s power over it? How do you know that? You don’t, pervert.

  • We could even apply this argument to adults ultimately, doesn’t matter, any kind of relation where power differences are involved.

So let’s say I have a gun, thus have a certain level of power over you as someone who does not own a gun and you suck my dick. Does that mean that I am a rapist? That is impossible to answer that simply, because that depends on different factors.

Did I hold the gun to your head and say:

  • ”If you don’t suck my dick I’m gonna blow your fucking brains out, cunt!”?

That is the question, because if I did not, and you just wanted to suck my dick in spite of my gun, then obviously I didn’t force you to do it. Of course, it is possible that someone still feels forced because they fear someone would shoot them, but it’s also perfectly possible that you just wanted to suck my dick in spite, not because of my gun, and that is what is to find out, just like in the relationship between the child/minor and the pedophile/adult.

Did the child feel intimidated by the adult’s authority in some way (which is what arguably kind of makes it authority in the first place, if you don’t feel impressed by a serial killer holding a machete to your throat, he has no real power to make you do something) or did the child want to have sex with the adult? If not and the child just wanted to have sex, it’s absurd that anyone would call that a rape, involuntary sex, because it is factually speaking not.

Here the average pedophobe will of course be inclined to retort again that:

  • ”That’s different because the child can’t consent!”

But if the reason why they are saying that the child cannot consent to have sex with their teacher is partially or exactly because of the inherent power imbalance between them, that power imbalance is the reason why the child cannot consent, then neither can an adult consent to sex with another adult if there is a power imbalance involved, as power imbalance was stated to be trait that causes the impossibility of consent, it’s basic logical consistency.

P1 – Minor can’t consent to sex with teacher because teacher has power over minor.

P2 – Bodybuilder has power over petite girlfriend as well.

C – Petite girlfriend can’t consent to sex with bodybuilder.

A retort might be that the petite girlfriend could become just as strong as the bodybuilder though with the right training, and they’re at least adults, so that’s equal, see, no difference in power anymore.

But that obviously ignores the fact that then she would no longer be petite, just like if a child became an adult and that took away the power difference between child and adult, it would no longer be a child, just like if the petite girl became as strong, she’d no longer be petite. If you really think that power imbalance in and of itself is the problem, then I don’t see why this point wouldn’t apply.

  • Power can also be a factor that attracts someone to someone, rather than a threat.

Another thing to point out that is possible is also that a person that has less power than their partner with more power is sexually attracted by their partner’s power, wants to have sex with them because of their power, but is not particularly intimidated, but more positively intrigued by said power, obviously often times females seek out a stronger male, but don’t only have sex because they are scared and intimidated.

Perhaps the 12 year old girl having sex with her teacher is particularly aroused by the fact that the teacher is an authority figure, or by an idolized musician’s success in some way, aroused by males in some sort of position of power over her, not by boys her age that haven’t established such a position yet, thus may be considered unfit partners, but obviously I don’t think we can reliably say that 12 year old girls only want to suck Justin Bieber’s dick because they are scared of him.

So to go back to the gun scenario, you may even be aroused by me having a gun.

In that case, it’s still not abusive, obviously you weren’t intimidated by the gun, you were aroused by it, I didn’t have to use the gun to intimidate you. I could still do that, but you just being aroused by my gun doesn’t mean I used it to force you into having sex with me, it was just one characteristic that attracted you to me.

So you could just have had sex with someone in spite of, not because of their gun, or you were intrigued by, but not intimidated by it.

The pedophobe or other equal bigots (like those opposed to all sex with the mentally handicapped or non-human animals) fail to take that into account, they only see there is a gun, they see that sex happened, therefore they assume a violent crime happened with no real evidence, this is a not a good way to investigate.

Power imbalance is only a problem if the power is used to intimidate the other party into doing something they don’t want to do, the mere existence of power is not the same as the abuse of power, this doesn’t suddenly change in a sexual context because it’s icky.

Pedophobes assume this, because they likely already made another bigoted, implicit assumption, which is that children are obviously entirely asexual in every possible way, so of course in order for children to ever be sexual, some evil pedophile monster must have manipulated them into it, just like they also frequently assume that when a child acts sexually, it must be the result of the child having been sexually abused before, trying to relive the scenario, no other variable.

They take that to be evidence of prior abuse, because they assume the child can’t just have found out on their own that rubbing your private parts a certain way may cause sexual pleasure, that’s too icky to think about that, children are asexual, children cannot produce excrement, they must not be capable of performing basic biological functions like that, because it’s icky.

Children/minors can consent.

A frequent argument in all sorts of discussions about sexual ethics, whether that is about having sex with children/minors, or also non-human animals or the mentally handicapped is that they are too unintelligent and immature to give consent, thus it is unethical to have sex with them, it tends to be the main focus of the discussion leading to a lot of confusion.

Consenting to something for the most part ultimately just implies willingness, being fine with something or not. When we talk about whether or not you consented in a sexual context, what is meant is usually just whether you wanted it to happen or not.

You can’t consent to get raped or be a slave for instance, it’s an oxymoron, if you wanted it it wouldn’t be rape or slavery anymore, what may be meant by ”wanting/consenting to get raped” is that you want someone to fuck you who doesn’t care whether or not you want to get fucked, but you still wanted it either way.

Children/minors are capable of agreement, they agree or don’t agree to do things every single day. Agree to eat food or not, agree to ride a bicycle or not, agree to be hugged or not.

A child can be willing, consenting to sexual pleasure too, I think that if we were to really steelman (as in, opposite of strawman, lay their view out as robust and coherent as possible) the pedophobes, what they really mean most of the time when they’re talking about consent is the child’s intelligence and maturity, foresight, i.e ability to plan and think ahead, understand consequences and ramifications of actions, this is something children are less capable of until a certain age, sometimes their foresight will be impaired.

Unless the pedophobe is some religious fanatic who thinks children don’t have erogenous zones and are innately asexual, what they are really saying is probably that a child may be willing, consenting to receive sexual pleasure, but that there are certain, potentially harmful consequences to that sexual pleasure that the child would not understand yet, in their disgust they automatically equate all sex in childhood with certain harms like anal rape, STDs, early pregnancy, etc.

That’s why even when you point out to them that the minor wanted to engage in some sort of sexual act with the older person, they act outraged and say it’s no excuse, even when the child supposedly wanted it, as if there is something innately harmful about sex that this poor child would just never agree to if they only knew about it.

These harmful consequences they automatically think of are not inherently connected to all sexual acts between children/minors and pedophiles/adults, so it doesn’t logically follow that just because someone isn’t intelligent or mature, they can’t consent to the sex act.

  • Whether or not you need a great future concept/advanced foresight depends on the future consequences of that act.

A greater foresight, intelligence and maturity are only important factors if there are potential negative consequences to your actions that you may fail to appreciate, if the act is harmless anyway, you don’t need high intelligence or maturity to process it.

If the sexual pleasure is indeed the only consequence of the sex act and there is no secondary unwanted consequence that the child didn’t want, then yes, all that can be objectively stated is that said child indeed consented to be sexually stimulated.

  • Example:

Let’s say a young child that doesn’t understand traffic rules yet and/or is too immature to take them seriously, this child wants to ride a bicycle.

  • Should we allow this child to consent to riding a bicycle?

The answer is that that entirely depends on the environment and its consequences. On the freeway with many cars driving around rapidly? No. In a largely safe and harmless environment with no cars driving or definitely slow enough to notice the child? Yes.

Whether or not the child has a great concept of the future, can think ahead is completely irrelevant in this scenario, because it is a harmless environment with no cars driving anyway, so the child doesn’t need to be able to think ahead because there’s about zero chance that they’ll get hit by a car anyway, all that matters is that the child wants to ride the bicycle, wasn’t forced to do so at gunpoint.

And the same consistently applies to sex, if a child found out about sexual pleasure by rubbing their private parts against things, but doesn’t understand possible risks of sex like STDs or different sexual practices like anal sex yet, that doesn’t automatically mean they can’t consent to any sexual act.

That means that they should not be engaging in the type of sex that has these risks they are unable to understand, but that is simply not all sex.

If the child for instance just wants to rub themselves against a pedophile’s leg for the exact same pleasurable sensation they received from rubbing themselves against a pillow, where none of these potential complications (like STDs, pregnancy, penetrative sex, etc) could even possibly exist, then indeed, all that can be objectively stated is that by all evidence the child consented to be sexually stimulated. It was wanted, and there was no future consequence to it that was unwanted either.

  • If the child wanted to ride the bicycle, and there was no consequence to riding the bicycle that the child did not want – the child consented to ride the bicycle.
  • If the child wanted to have the sex, and there was no consequence to having the sex that the child did not want – the child consented to have the sex.

The fact that children may not understand the consequences of their actions as much as adults yet is only a problem if those consequences are actually present, if the negative consequences don’t exist in a given scenario, there’s no problem. And just like in other scenarios, the responsibility should be on the adults, including the pedophile of course to make sure there are no negative consequences for the child (like STDs or pregnancy), instead of just forbidding the child to have sex. You don’t forbid the child to ride the bicycle at all, you just make sure it’s as safe as possible.

There’s no age restriction for children eating broccoli for instance, and that is because if the child consents to eat broccoli, it’s unlikely that there is any long term consequence to eating broccoli that the child will later on not consent to, so there’s no reason to stop this child from consenting to eat broccoli.

There’s an age restriction for alcohol and cigarettes on the other hand, and the idea there is that although the child may agree to drink a bottle of whiskey, they may not consent to the future consequences that could have on their body, but is not aware of that to the same degree as someone with a more mature understanding of future consequences, then able to weigh the pros and cons.

This argument similarly applies to humans that are perhaps on the same intellectual level as children, some intellectually handicapped individuals perhaps go their entire lives engaging in all sorts of recreational activities without fully understanding them to the same degree as someone who isn’t severely intellectually disabled, does that mean they cannot express their preferences to any degree? No, it simply means we sometimes have to take extra cautionary measures to ensure their safety, we can use a similar example here.

  • Another example:

Let’s say there’s a mentally handicapped person that likes to collect blue marbles, but they have a tendency to swallow said marbles sometimes and are too handicapped to understand that that’s bad, they can only say ”blue marble me feel good good”.

  • Does that mean that they just per se can’t consent to play with blue marbles?

No. Under the supervision of someone who makes sure they don’t swallow them and choke on it, there would be no problem with it. Completely alone in the house, probably a bad idea.

Same exact standard can then again consistently be applied to sex, so let’s say there’s a mentally retarded female on the intelligence level of a 5 year old, interested in sex but unaware of what STDs are.

Whether or not it would be responsible to allow her to consent again depends entirely on the consequences. If her partner has no STDs and takes care of the contraception process and all that the sexual encounter thus consists of is the desired exchange of sexual pleasure, there’s no problem, no reason to say she couldn’t consent.

Now if her partner has AIDS and doesn’t use protection, she doesn’t consent to get the AIDS but isn’t aware of that, so at that point it’d be sensible to intervene for us to prevent her from receiving the AIDS from the other irresponsible party.

  • Sex is not such a complicated act that always results in harm no matter what, so there’s no reason to assume one necessarily has to have a great future concept/advanced foresight to engage in it.

So if a child actually wants to receive sexual pleasure from rubbing herself against a pedophile’s leg instead of a pillow, wasn’t manipulated in some way to do so and there is absolutely nothing in that scenario the pedophile does that the child would later on not want, like anal rape or whatever pedophobes imagine to always happen, the question really becomes:

  • What is the supposed future consequence in sex that this child fails to take into account due to their childishness, that they need to be protected against at all costs, that they simply can never understand until the child is no longer a child?

The child cannot give consent they would claim. Why not, where is the harmful future consequence in leg humping as opposed to pillow humping that the child subject simply fails to take into account due to their childishness? What is it?

What is this magical consequence that supposedly exists for everyone under the holy age of consent when they have sex with someone over the holy age of consent that the child would need to be informed about for consent to be possible, but simply can’t because the child is not an adult yet?

A detailed refutation of common pro-natalist arguments.

  • There are good things in life too. Surely there are many bad things in life, like cancer, disability and torture, but there are also many good things in life, like sunsets, chocolate ice cream and orgasms, and the good things overall justify the bad things. What about all the good things in life?!

Once you exist in the conscious sense, you need to feel good to avoid feeling bad. But before you exist, while you don’t feel good, you don’t feel bad as a result of not feeling good, so not feeling good is never a problem until the desire machine is created.

You don’t eat, you get hungry. You don’t drink, you get thirsty. You don’t defecate, you constipate. You don’t orgasm, you get tense. So on and so forth, so by obtaining any good in life, you are always preventing a greater negative/harm to yourself, but never as efficiently as by not being born in the first place.

That’s why it’s a ludicrous the idea that we can do any organism a favor by making it conscious, it didn’t need to feel good to avoid feeling bad before it existed because it didn’t exist, but once it exists it’ll have to feel good to avoid feeling bad, it’s doing them a favor in the same way it would be doing you a favor if I gave an illness (a bad condition) solely for the good of then treating that illness (correcting the bad condition, which you did not need before I created the bad condition in need of correction).

So when you bring a child into existence for some supposed good in it, you’re causing a problem to exist for the sake of fixing it, this is about as absurd as to set someone’s house on fire for the good of extinguishing it again, give someone AIDS for the good of giving them AIDS treatment, breaking someone’s leg and stabbing them in the chest for the good of giving them a painkiller and a bandaid afterwards, you’re creating pain for the sake of trying to eliminate it again.

You didn’t need to have your house extinguished before I set it on fire, so to argue that I’m achieving a net positive by creating the negative condition for you to prevent (the burning house) would be non-sensical, the good is contingent on your suffering.

Once every urge that could have pushed you to eat it is gone, the food will stop to induce pleasure in you, be it hunger or appetite, it could also be appetite instead of hunger, appetite is still suffering, if we forced you to never eat your favorite foods again you’d experience a certain discomfort as a result of that, discomfort that isn’t as intense and noticeable in an everyday situation where you are mostly able to quickly satiate yourself.

If unfulfilled desire already exists, then it may be a good idea to fulfill it, but it’s certainly not a good idea to create unfulfilled desire in the first place, it’s a problem, you put the child in need, into a degraded condition – just like if you see a burning house or a child drowning in the ocean, it’s good to extinguish the fire and save it from drowning, but it’s certainly not a good idea to set the fire or throw the child into the ocean in the first place, you’re just creating a problem.

The worst is that the alleviation is not guaranteed either, breeders have no failsafe guarantee that the child will be able to fulfill all its desires in life, they produce this desire machine without guarantee how tormenting the desires will be, how long lasting the fulfillment of said desires is, if the desires can even be fulfilled, if the desires can be fulfilled without harming someone else in the process. Many desires go unfulfilled, and the fulfillment of many harms others, so reproduction as a whole is kind of like setting a renting apartment on fire for the good of extinguishing only some of its parts, while some children will burn to death inside the building.

  • It’s neither good or bad to prevent the suffering of a future child because it doesn’t even exist yet, it can’t be good for that child, so it is irrelevant if you prevent its potential suffering, it can’t appreciate that, morals and ethics can only be applied to those that already exist.

By this standard, you’d ultimately have to bite the bullet on accepting every possible future atrocity being planned ahead for someone that does not exist yet, because right now, the situation doesn’t exist, so what happens in the future will not matter either.

There wouldn’t even be any point in preventing a child from being born that is going to be in chronic pain every day and severely disabled, it doesn’t exist yet, so it doesn’t matter to the child that its suffering has been prevented, might as well just shit it out and keep it in your basement as a sex slave, doesn’t matter that you’re planning to do that, you haven’t done it yet after all, so what happens in the future will also be completely irrelevant – that’s the general idea here.

  • The future generation doesn’t exist yet, so why is it a problem if I pollute the environment for them as much as possible?
  • Terminally ill cats and dogs won’t appreciate the prevention of their future pain after we euthanized them in their sleep, so why not just let them die as painfully as possible?
  • In fact, why does anyone commit suicide if they can’t even appreciate the fact that their pain has been prevented once they are dead? Prevention is pointless, right?

It’s called the non-identity ”problem”, future harm obviously matters as you can see in these examples I’ve just demonstrated, what we do right now will have an effect on the future, so it is completely hypocritical to make an exception for reproduction, or in fact usually just cases of reproduction where we don’t know what the future victim will win in the suffering lottery and it isn’t crystal clear from the start they’ll be severely disabled and in chronic pain every day.

Let’s say it’s just a hypothetical button I could push to create an alien species that does nothing but to feel the worst possible pain ever, would you be ignorant enough to argue it’s not important for me to make sure I don’t accidentally hit the button, because since these aliens don’t currently exist, they can’t appreciate that the worst possible pain ever is not currently taking place?

  • If preventing the future suffering of a yet to be individual is good, then the prevention of their pleasures and goods in life is however also bad, you’re depriving that future person of many good things that could happen too!

If one never comes into existence at any point in the future, one can never be deprived of anything. Do you think it’s good if a semen sample that contains a severely disabled child that will do nothing but experience chronic pain is flushed down the toilet? Most likely, yes.

Do you think it’s a horrible crime to flush a semen sample that contains a very happy future person down the toilet? Most likely, no, we don’t recognize the absence of pleasure as a problem unless it results in pain for someone craving that pleasure.

The absence of pleasure is not in and of itself the presence of pain. The absence of pleasure is the presence of pain as long as you exist as a sentient organism, but the millions upon millions of years before you existed, your pleasure was also absent, but never actually resulted in any pain for you, because you didn’t exist. Was that a big deal, that you didn’t get to eat any chocolate whilst you didn’t exist and therefore didn’t crave any chocolate either?

It is irrelevant, someone cannot enjoy being saved from drowning if you don’t throw them into the ocean, but it wouldn’t matter, you don’t need to be saved from drowning if you’re never thrown into the ocean. There is no good in chemotherapy if you don’t have the cancer, but it wouldn’t matter, because you don’t need chemotherapy if you don’t have cancer.

Some life supporters like to give unfair examples of how you can still meaningfully deprive someone even if they never felt deprived of something, e.g. what if you win the lottery and someone takes your money, but doesn’t tell you? What if someone dropped a gift in front of your door while you were on vacation but then I took it away?

In those cases, you still had an already existent quality of life, and your experience was degraded by not receiving the money to fulfill your already existent needs, wants, desires, your experience was kept in a worse state by not receiving the gift you would have liked to receive.

But non-sentient matter before it becomes sentient has absolutely no needs, wants, desires whatsoever, so you are not hurting it by aborting it before it becomes sentient. No desire, no need for desire fulfillment, you didn’t desire to have desires before you had desires.

By this standard that it’s supposedly bad to not create a new pleasure, relieved conscious experiences, you’d then also have to ultimately mourn every ejaculation flushed down the toilet, it is the destruction of potential sentient life that could be put into a negative condition of need, want, desire, and then feel the pleasure of avoiding said negative condition.

Why do I have the right to experience all the good things in life but not my potential 100 siblings? Is it fair that I discriminate against potential sentience whenever I ejaculate? Shouldn’t every potential sentient lifeform that I ejaculate be incubated, so that then it can one day also experience tension, stress and pressure which they can also alleviate by ejaculating like me?

We’d have a duty to reproduce as much as possible if the absence of pleasure were that big of a problem for the non-existent, but it’s obviously not, there is no unborn purgatory from which any unborn children are missing out on life.

  • Most are happy to have been born, if you surveyed them, almost anywhere, they would say they’re glad to be alive.

The point is that the fact alone that they are happy still doesn’t prove that we should think existence has any important benefit over non-existence, you can avoid suffering by always arriving at your next pleasure rush just in time, but never as efficiently as by never becoming conscious. It’s certainly good that they’re happy, they’re avoiding suffering always just in time before it gets too bad, but they could have done it even better by not being born and then they wouldn’t have missed anything.

The fact alone that a heroin addict feels happy when they get their new heroin fix to alleviate their already existent addiction doesn’t answer the question of whether or not it was sensible to start becoming addicted to heroin in the first place.

The problem is that most people are not really deeply contemplating it like this when they make this point, if it’s possible that a vast majority of humans are delusional enough to iamgine that they will still exist after they’ve died and then look down upon earth, lamenting all the fun things they’re now going to miss out on, then it’s also possible for them to have a similarly flawed intuition when it comes to what happened before their birth, that’s how we sometimes imagine death.

They only know their state of being addicted to life, so obviously they think that if they didn’t come into existence, they would have somehow missed out on something, ”I’m glad I’ve been born!” they say, as if something bad would have happened if they didn’t, imagining their needs, wants, desires somehow existing independently of them, as if if no one were to be left on planet earth anymore, it would somehow be a great problem that no chocolate cake is being enjoyed.

They imagine ”I wouldn’t have existed” from the perspective of ”I already exist, and then I would feel really bad that I don’t exist!”.

So of course, when they see it in this delusional context of ”if I didn’t get born, I would have missed out on my first blowjob!”, they’re going to think that dying of lung cancer is worth it later on, as they intuitively imagine that they would have otherwise suffered from missing out on that first blowjob from the depths of the unborn purgatory, but once you remove that delusional perception, it’d be questionable why they would think any risk of suffering is worth it, considering the absence of their pleasure couldn’t possibly have never manifested as a real harm of any sort.

You may even rationally comprehend that you weren’t a ghost lamenting that you were missing out on the pleasures of life before you were born, or that you won’t be one after you’ve died, but it’s an irrational fear that you cannot fully get rid of, such as arachnophobia, fear of spiders. For instance, you might understand that a little spider is not going to harm you, but you can still irrationally feel that it is an extreme threat, fear of non-existence is similarly irrational as arachnophobia.

Also, why would the fact that some of the organisms are happy justify the unhappy ones?

I could argue if I impose the risk of trauma on others by giving them surprise anal sex, I might make some of them happy, but this doesn’t justify all the ones that are unhappy about it.

Using procreation to make the procreated victims happy is in fact even less justifiable than surprise anal sex, because as stated before, non-existent children have absolutely no desire to be made happy in the first place because they don’t exist, at least the surprise ass rapist could argue there are some people that would want to get randomly fucked in the ass.

Another point is also that it’s socially unacceptable to criticize life likely due to the exact delusions I’ve explained here, such as life’s pleasures being a necessity for the non-existent. With life, similar to a rape I could argue, some won’t be too bothered by the suffering in it, some will rationalize it, some will be completely destroyed by it.

But a lot of it is rationalization, there are a few suicide attempts here and there every day, there are a few individuals here and there that need to use drugs every day to get through said day.

  • If the child doesn’t like life, it can still always opt out by committing suicide, they have a choice, so it’s all fair. Why don’t you just kill yourself if life is so bad? If it were really so bad, you would kill yourself.

Giving your victim the chance to commit suicide doesn’t justify you imposing on them.

If I locked a girl into my basement and raped her every day but also gave her a rope to hang herself with, this wouldn’t justify what I have done, I already caused a great harm that isn’t nullified by her being given the chance to commit suicide.

This is exactly the callous attitude the life apologist demonstrates in this scenario though, if the girl really didn’t want to get raped, she would have killed herself, this proves that rape must be good and it’s perfectly justified to impose rape.

If the birthed really didn’t want life’s suffering, they would have killed themselves, this proves that life must be good and it’s perfectly justified to impose life.

Obviously, if someone wants to kill themselves, you already harmed them, it’s too late, something happened to them in life that they didn’t want to happen to them because you created that opportunity by making them sentient. What makes even more idiotic is that those pro-lifers are frequently also opposed to the right to die on top of being in favor in reproduction, so the rapist throws you a rope to hang yourself, but if you do it when he notices it, he’ll rape you again and won’t let you go until you pretend to like it.

There are also practical reasons for those opposed to procreation to keep living.

While you’re here, you can also spread the message and possibly reduce more suffering than by just killing yourself, so it doesn’t logically follow that just because one dislikes and disagrees with x circumstance, they would immediately try to get away from x circumstance.

See it this way – if you take issue with being sent to a war, you aren’t exactly solving the problem of the war by just killing yourself, if you kill yourself, they are going to send someone else into it anyway, so you might as well try to persuade other people to stop blindly supporting the war and to minimize harm/cruelty in the war as it is taking place.

How is the overall problem of war solved by you shooting yourself in the head? It is not.

Then, life is also an addiction, and the ethical question here is whether or not it’s a good idea to impose the addiction. I am not wrong for pointing out that the addiction is harmful just because I’m not ready to quit living myself, just like a cigarette smoker would similarly not be wrong for pointing out that cigarette addiction comes at a cost, just because they aren’t ready to quit smoking, claiming otherwise would be an appeal to hypocrisy.

The natalist can be seen as the irresponsible heroin addict here, not willing to admit that heroin addiction doesn’t only have benefits, so to reinforce this view, they inject unsuspecting victims that didn’t consent to it in any way with heroine, then if you criticize them, they say ”if you’re opposed to me injecting unsuspecting victims with heroin, you have to quit the heroin yourself first!” – No I don’t, that simply doesn’t follow, just like it doesn’t follow that I have to quit the life addiction myself in order for it to be true that life addiction comes with many great harms.

  • But everything we do in life carries certain risks of damage, that doesn’t mean we should avoid doing it altogether. When you get into the car or sun, you risk getting into an accident or skin cancer, but we still do it, we just take certain precautions like putting on the seatbelt and sun creme.

Producing a child is completely different from all these scenarios because in that case, there is no downside to not producing it for the non-existent child that could justify this lack of absolute risk aversion.

In most cases, we think of 100% risk aversion as absurd because it results in the very thing that it is trying to prevent – suffering. When you avoid everything, like driving a car for instance, you’re suffering from not being able to drive anymore, a great loss for you, so you suffer a loss even though you avoided driving altogether.

The child’s soul on the other hand can never suffer from not having its consciousness activated, it is not writhing in pain in the unborn purgatory, lamenting that the parents are too risk-averse to bring it into existence, there is in fact no unborn purgatory where children are suffering from a desire to be brought into existence, procreators 100% create all suffering of desire.

You might argue that there is a downside of suffering for the person that wants to create the child but shouldn’t, this is however looking at it from the perspective of the perpetrator, that’s like lamenting that you can’t steal someone else’s money and take it to a gambling house.

Notably, it is obviously not even you taking the risk for yourself of course, you are forcing someone else to get into the car or sit in the sun, you are taking a risk for someone else, telling them they ought to think the risk is worth it.

  • Suffering can be good as well, there is great value in suffering sometimes, makes you grow stronger and resilient. Injection is painful, but it’s still good, and what about masochists?

Suffering, negative sensation, is always inherently negative, saying suffering can be good is like saying wet can be dry or hot can be cold. Sometimes you are forced to decide between experiencing two sufferings and go for the lesser of two evils, that doesn’t mean negative sensations are good.

You are not getting the injection because the sensation of the injection itself is a good, you’re taking the injection only to avoid a greater suffering as it grants you immunity to illness, it is not the stab of the needle by itself that constitutes a positive, if you could grant yourself immunity to illness by just snapping your fingers, you would do that instead.

In all these situations, pain is only incorrectly indentified as a good because it helps to prevent a greater pain. Fact is, if you could manage to prevent the same pain in a less painful manner, such as by snapping your fingers, you would choose to do so. Plus, there are tons of pains in life that are not instrumental to avoiding a greater pain.

Even if you are an extreme masochist ramming a needle in your urethra, you are arguably still avoiding a suffering. You are suffering from a strong sexual impulse to ram a needle into your urethra, sexual frustration, tension, stress. To mitigate the frustration, tension, stress, you have to ram said needle into your urethra and accept this in this case lesser suffering to mitigate the greater suffering from the strong sexual impulse to ram it into your urethra, that still doesn’t prove negative sensation to somehow simultaneously be positive.

Of course, there is also only need to endure suffering to avoid greater suffering once you create the victim and throw the child into a state of suffering/deprivation by initiating its consciousness in the first place, the suffering caused by procreation is not a form of suffering that is instrumental to avoidance of greater long term suffering.

The non-existent child right now doesn’t need to go through any injections to avoid the greater bad of suffering from various illnesses, it can’t become ill as it doesn’t exist, so the creation of the problem in the first place still remains unjustified, there is no unborn purgatory from which children need to be rescued to avoid a worse suffering.

The injection might be necessary once the proneness to illness exists, but the natalist in question has still not explained coherently why the proneness to illness has to exist in the first place, so the child would still be perfectly rational for blaming the parents for creating the possibility for them to get sick.

In the case of reproduction, you don’t have to cause suffering to the child to prevent it from experiencing greater suffering, it’s not one of these scenarios, you create suffering and proneness to greater suffering.

  • But what if we just make a utopia then where everything is good, you could have a constant orgasm and there would be no more suffering.

It would still just be a bandaid rather than a cure, pleasure and suffering exist compared to each other. If you have more pleasure of satiation, you have less suffering of hunger, and if you have more suffering of hunger, you have less pleasure of satiation. So if there are varying degrees of pleasuredness in the utopia scenario, it’s not a scenario of true perfection, you’re still always trying to arrive at a greater state of pleasure/evade the punishment of becoming bored with the last one.

The concept of goods in existence without suffering is contradictory, it’s like saying you have an extinguished fire without there having been a fire first, or a cured infection without there having been an infection first, a desire has to be able to be unfulfilled for it to be able to be fulfilled, so if there’s the good (fulfilled desire), then there’s the threat of the bad (unfulfilled desire), you still need to give these organisms unfulfilled desires to fulfill, suffering to alleviate, where else is their relief supposed to come from?

If I’m not in any way hungry for it, the perfect meal won’t be the perfect meal anymore. If I’m not in any way horny for it, the perfect pussy won’t be the perfect pussy anymore. So we still have to create suffering to then later on constantly keep relieving, which isn’t as good as zero suffering, and the pleasure remains disposable in the sense that the non-existers still won’t feel deprived of it.

But let’s suppose that we had a utopia in the sense that all of our desires could be fulfilled, the endless orgasm utopia where we could alleviate our deprivations just in time before it gets out of hand and mutates into long-lasting periods of unalleviated suffering.

Even if future technology granted us the perfect fire extinguishing means, whatever that would look like, it wouldn’t be a reason to just randomly set a forest on fire, it would be worse without the perfect fire extinguishing means in place, but no fire would still be less bad than a perfectly extinguished one.

Even if we discovered the perfect, immediate cure for AIDS, I still wouldn’t inject myself with AIDS blood just to then thereafter give myself the cure for AIDS again.

And in the same way, it would only be rational to ultimately view our desire. It’s good to fulfill it in the sense that you avoid an otherwise unfulfilled desire, suffering, and pleasure, relief is what you obtain when you do that, but still wouldn’t crave if you didn’t exist.

Zero desire > fulfilled desire > unfulfilled desire.

No AIDS > cured AIDS > uncured AIDS.

That’s the point, perfectly solved problem > unsolved problem, but no problem > solved problem, you can’t get any better than no problem, zero suffering is the least bad.

If the goal is to not have a broken vase, the best step to take is to abstain from throwing it onto the floor in the first place instead of throwing it onto the floor and then perfectly repairing it again, it’s better than imperfectly repairing it, but it doesn’t get any better than not breaking it to begin with.

Important to point out is also that even if we presuppose that it is possible to have a solved problem without a problem, or that the existence of perfect problem solving means would obligate us to or justify the creation of problems, it would certainly not be a justification for causing suffering by reproduction right now, it would be like setting a forest on fire before the waterhose is even invented, just because you hope that the water hose might be invented one day, or injecting someone with the AIDS blood just because you hope for an AIDS cure in the distant future.

  • ”If we stopped breeding, we’d go extinct.”

That’s like saying if we stopped slavery, slave owners would go out of business.

You haven’t justified slavery yet, so the fact alone that slave owners would lose their jobs if we stopped slavery is not an argument for the continuation of slavery.

You’re just making an assumption that slavery must be great by saying that if it were to end, it wouldn’t be here anymore, which is wrong.

It’s entirely begging the question – ”if we stop the creation of sentient life, then there won’t be any more sentient life, which is why stopping the production of more sentient life is bad”, this is a bad argument similar to saying ”stopping slavery is bad, because then there won’t be any more slavery, and that is why stopping slavery is bad”.

Also, of course, every little need, want, desire anyone could possibly have, including the need to see life flourish is a problem that has been caused by sentient life existing. If sentient life no longer existed, we would no longer have the problem of desiring for it to exist. There’s no problem that can’t be solved by non-existence, including your impulse to see existence continue.