”You’re not entitled to sex, deal with it.” is a common response feminists have when they are confronted with the problem of male sexlessness, sometimes referred to as involuntary celibacy, hence the word in(voluntary)cel(ibate).
Right away, I already think this is rather presumptious. Who said someone is entitled? I’m not denying there are of course incels who say they are entitled to sex no matter what, but to immediately accuse someone of entitlement simply because they are stating their dissatisfaction with a circumstance is the result of a flawed thought process.
”I’m sad I don’t have friends.”
AH SO YOU THINK YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO A HOLD A GUN TO PEOPLE’S HEADS AND FORCE THEM TO BE YOUR FRIENDS???
”I’m sad my mother died.”
AH SO YOU THINK YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO HOLD A GUN TO RANDOM WOMEN’S HEADS AND FORCE THEM TO PRETEND TO BE YOUR MOMMY???
”I’m a cripple and I always wanted to be an athlete with real legs, this makes me sad.”
AH SO YOU THINK YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO CUT EVERYONE’S LEGS OFF AND ATTACH THEM TO YOURSELF??? PIECE OF SHIT SCUM!!!
This is absurd, who said that if you voice your dissatisfaction as a way of relieving yourself, you must necessarily believe to be entitled to something?
Is this how to sensibly react to someone’s suffering? If someone is dissatisfied with x circumstance, we should immediately accuse them of being entitled pricks? Somehow ”I wanted to have lots of sex but I can’t because I’m ugly and/or socially disabled in some way” earns this type of scorn response in particular.
Likewise, if it is supposed to be advice, it is flawed – that also seems to be the perception of many of these ignorant feminists, that the suffering is caused by your sense of entitlement, rather than something deeper. So you just get rid of that sense of entitlement somehow and the problem is solved in their deluded minds.
It is a common form of gaslighting abuse feminists engage in towards sexually unsuccessful men, they deny the suffering caused by phenomena easily explained by evolution, and pretend that is is all just coming from some patriarchy rape culture conspiracy against them.
I think that not having sex causes men suffering because evolution simply favors what results in survival, so it made it so that men experience suffering when they don’t release their seed in a warm wet hole, because that is one of many ways to encourage that they will reproduce – to pretend that the suffering is caused just by some kind of social construct giving men a sense of entitlement is gaslighting abuse.
”You dumb incels only want sex because you see sex on the evil rape culture television everywhere, it’s not like sex is used in commercials because men are already naturally interested in sex, NO, men are only interested in sex because they have been indoctrinated by the evil rape culture television!”
Another crucial aspect to bring up here is the lie that they are only saying incels are not entitled to sex and their hypocrisy.
The lie (or delusion) is that many of these feminists are supposedly just saying you cannot take sex forcefully, i.e ”you’re not entitled to rape” pretty much – but that is not all they are saying.
Guess who the most incel-hating cunts are? The same ones who are also in principle opposed to prostitution, pornography or sex dolls.
So it is not just ”you can’t take sex forcefully”, it is also:
”Even if a woman agrees to let you stick it in for a certain price, it still isn’t ok because she wants money and not sex, so the sex is unwanted and unwanted sex is rape, so basically all work is slavery because the baker is only baking bread for money, not because they want to bake bread, so it is unwanted work, which is slavery, wah wah wah, I just want you to remain sexless for the rest of your life and suffer horrifically!!!”
and it is also:
”But pornography COULD be abusive, sometimes women are abused in that industry, so maybe you are watching a video in which someone was abused for free without contributing to the abuse because you watched it for free and they don’t even know you exist, so that must be banned, although even real life violence and gore videos of decapitations are perfectly legal if you’re only watching them for free, despite containing DEFINITE violence! We only care about censoring sex! Animated child porn=wrong because it’s child abuse but horror movie=acceptable!”
and it might also be:
”But what if you get used to fucking a sex doll and then your male pea brain can’t distinguish between the sex doll and a real woman anymore, so you go out and start sexually assaulting women because you think they’re sex dolls? Also, how old is your sex doll??? OMG I’m so disgusted right now, your sex doll looks like she’s still underage! Fucking child rapist you deserve to be castrated!!!!!!!!!!!!”
So these people have no right to claim it is just about incels not being allowed to force someone to have sex with them, they want in fact all sexual outlets to be banned.
Then their hypocrisy – sometimes they seem to think females are entitled to male attention but not the other way around.
If you tell them you can’t be friends with a girl anymore because it is tormenting to have her tits dangled in front of you and not being able to touch, they will accuse you of acting entitled for not being able to bear the friendship anymore, as if somehow the female in that situation is entitled to a male friend.
Another one would be you find out that your wife did some sex act you’re interested in (deepthroat, anal, fisting, etc) with someone in the past when she was still young and fresh, but not with you, so you divorce her to avoid that frustration/suffering of being the settled for second choice. Again, many here will say this is the man acting entitled, but why is the wife entitled to a marriage?
If you’re going with the ”you’re entitled to nothing in this life! NOTHING!” standard, why are women entitled to attention from men on the other hand? It goes both ways.